1. Why is it better to go to the house of mourning than to the house of feasting?
"It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: _for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart_." Eccl. 7:2.
2. What did David ask G.o.d to teach him?
"Lord, _make me to know mine end_, and the measure of my days, what it is, _that I may know how frail I am_." Ps. 39:4. See also Ps. 90:12.
3. Why is sorrow better than laughter?
"Sorrow is better than laughter: _for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better_." Eccl. 7:3.
NOTE.-"Many of the loveliest songs of peace and trust and hope which G.o.d"s children sing in this world they have been taught in the hushed and darkened chambers of sorrow.... Afflictions, sanctified, soften the asperities of life. They tame the wildness of nature. They temper human ambitions. They burn out the dross of selfishness and worldliness. They humble pride. They quell fierce pa.s.sions. They reveal to men their own hearts, their own weakness, faults, blemishes, and perils. They teach patience and submission.
They discipline unruly spirits. They deepen and enrich our experience."-_"__Week-Day Religion,__"__ by J. R. Miller, D. D., pages 92, 93._
4. Are the righteous freed from afflictions in this world?
"_Many are the afflictions of the righteous_: but the Lord delivereth him out of them all." Ps. 34:19.
5. Does G.o.d delight to afflict any?
"For the Lord will not cast off forever: but though He cause grief, yet will He have compa.s.sion according to the mult.i.tude of His mercies. _For He doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men._" Lam. 3:31-33.
6. Does He afflict to leave the one chastened in despair?
"Behold, happy is the man whom G.o.d correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty: _for He maketh sore, and bindeth up: He woundeth, and His hands make whole_." Job 5:17, 18.
7. In what language is the same truth again expressed?
"Come, and let us return unto the Lord: for _He hath torn, and He will heal us; He hath smitten, and He will bind us up_." Hosea 6:1. See also Isa. 61:1-3.
8. Whom does the Lord chasten?
"For _whom the Lord loveth He chasteneth_, and scourgeth every son whom He receiveth." Heb. 12:6.
9. Is this, for the time being, a source of pleasure?
"Now _no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous_: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby." Verse 11.
NOTE.-"Many of the sweetest joys of Christian hearts are songs which have been learned in the bitterness of trial." "Many a cold, icy nature is made warm and tender by the grief that crushes it."-_"__Week-Day Religion,__"_ by J. R. Miller, D. D., pages 91, 93.
10. What, aside from sin, causes more sorrow than all else?
Death, or the loss of loved ones.
11. Does death bring to Christians una.s.suaged sorrow?
"I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, _that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope_." 1 Thess.
4:13.
NOTE.-The loss of loved ones G.o.d often uses as a means of conversion, and of severing the ties which bind to earth.
Persecution; sickness; the loss of sight, hearing, or limb; the loss of property; or other calamities, may likewise be instrumental in drawing us nearer to G.o.d. See Ps. 119:71; Isa.
26:9.
12. What do our transient afflictions do for us?
"For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, _worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory_." 2 Cor. 4:17. See Rom.
8:28.
Comfort In Affliction
[Ill.u.s.tration.]
David Mourning For Absalom. "When thou pa.s.sest through the waters, I will be with thee." Isa. 43:2.
1. Are G.o.d"s people free from affliction?
"_Many are the afflictions of the righteous_: but the Lord delivereth him out of them all." Ps. 34:19.
2. How does G.o.d regard the afflicted?
"He _heareth the cry_ of the afflicted." Job 34:28.
3. What has He promised to be to those in trouble?
"G.o.d is our refuge and strength, _a very present help in trouble_." Ps.
46:1.
4. With what feelings does the Lord look upon His children?
"_Like as a father pitieth his children_, so the Lord pitieth them that fear Him." Ps. 103:13.
5. What does He know and remember?
"For He knoweth _our frame_; He remembereth _that we are dust_." Verse 14.
6. What has the Lord promised to be to the oppressed?