Oh dear. Am starting to get carried away with idea of self as Calvin Klein-style mother figure, poss. wearing crop-top or throwing baby in the air, laughing fulfilledly in advert for designer gas cooker, feel-good movie or similar.
In the office today Perpetua was at her most obnoxious, spending 45 minutes on the phone to Desdemona, discussing whether yellow walls would look nice with pink-and-grey ruched blinds or whether she and Hugo should go for Blood Red with a floral freize. For one 15-minute interlude she said nothing whatsoever except, "Absolutely . . . no, absolutely . . . absolutely," then concluded, "But of course, in a sense, one could make exactly the same argument for the red."
Instead of wanting to staple things to her head, I merely smiled in a beatific sort of way, thinking how soon all these things were to be immaterial to me, alongside caring for another tiny human being. Next I discovered a whole new world of Daniel fantasies: Daniel carrying the baby in a sling, Daniel rushing home from work, thrilled to find the two of us pink and glowing in the bath, and, in years to come, being incredibly impressive at parent/teacher evenings.
But then Daniel appeared. I have never seen him look worse, The only possible explanation was that on leaving me yesterday he had carried on drinking. He looked over at me, briefly, with the expression of an axe-murderer. Suddenly the fantasies were replaced by images from the film Barfly Barfly, where the couple spent the whole time blind drunk, screaming and throwing bottles at each other, or Harry Enfield"s The Slobs with Daniel yelling, "Bridge. The baby Is bawlin". Its "ead off."
And me retorting, "Daniel. I am avin" avin" ay f.a.g. ay f.a.g.
Wednesday 3 May
9st 2* (Eek. Baby growing at monstrous unnatural rate), alcohol units 0, cigarettes 0, calories 3100 (but mainly potatoes, oh my G.o.d).* Must keep eye on weight again, now, for Baby"s sake.
Help. Monday and most of Tuesday I sort of thought I was pregnant, but knew I wasn"t really - rather like when you"re walking home late at night, and think someone is following you, but know they"re not really. But then they suddenly grab you round the neck and now I"m two days late. Daniel ignored me all day Monday then caught me at 6 p.m. and said, "Listen, I"m goin to be in Manchester till the end of the week. I"ll see you Sat.u.r.day night, OK?" He hasn"t called. Am single mother.
Thursday 4 May
9st alcohol units 0, cigarettes 0, potatoes 12. alcohol units 0, cigarettes 0, potatoes 12.
Went to the chemist to discreetly buy a pregnancy test, I was just shoving the packet at the girl on the till, with my head down, wishing I"d thought to put my ring on my wedding finger, when the chemist yelled, "You want a pregnancy test?"
"Shh," I hissed, looking over my shoulder.
"How late"s your period?" he bellowed. "You"d be better with the blue one. It tells you if you"re pregnant on the first first day day after your period is due." after your period is due."
I grabbed the proffered blue one, handed over the eight pounds sodding ninety-five and scuttled out.
For the first two hours this morning I kept staring at my handbag as if it was an unexploded bomb. At 11.30 I could stand it no longer, grabbed the handbag, got in the lift and went to the loo two floors down to avoid the risk of anyone I knew hearing suspicious rustling. For some reason, the whole business suddenly made me furious with Daniel. It was his responsibility too and he wasn"t having to spend 8.95 and hide in the toilets trying to wee on a stick. I unwrapped the packet in a fury, shoving the box and everything in the bin and getting on with it, then put the stick upside down on the back of the loo without looking at it. Three minutes, There was no way I was going to watch my fate being sealed by a slowly-forming thin blue line. Somehow I got through those hundred and eighty seconds - my last hundred and eighty seconds of freedom - picked up the stick and nearly screamed. There in the little window was a thin blue line, bold as bra.s.s. Aargh! Aargh!
After 45 minutes of staring blankly at the computer trying to pretend Perpetua was a Mexican cheeseplant whenever she asked me what was the matter, I bolted and went out to a phone booth to ring Sharon. b.l.o.o.d.y Perpetua. If Perpetua had a pregnancy scare she"s got so much English establishment behind her she"d be down the aisle in an Amanda Wakeley wedding dress in ten minutes flat. Outside, there was so much traffic noise I couldn"t make Sharon understand.
"What? Bridget? I can"t hear. Are you in trouble with the police?"
"No," I snuffled. "Me blue line in the pregnancy test." pregnancy test."
"Jesus. I"ll meet you in Cafe Rouge in fifteen minutes." "Jesus. I"ll meet you in Cafe Rouge in fifteen minutes."
Although it was only 12.45 1 thought a vodka and orange wouldn"t do any harm since it was a genuine emergency, but then I remembered that baby wasn"t supposed to have vodka. I waited, feeling like a weird sort of hermaphrodite or Push-me-pull-you experiencing the most violently opposed baby sentiments of a man and a woman both at the same time. On the one hand I was all nesty and gooey about Daniel, smug about being a real woman - so irrepressiblv fecund! - and imagining fluffy pink baby skin, a tiny creature to love, and darling little Ralph Lauren baby outfits. On the other I was thinking, oh my G.o.d, life is over, Daniel is a mad alcoholic and will kin me then chuck me when he finds out. No more nights out with the girls, shopping, flirting, s.e.x, bottles of wine and f.a.gs. Instead I am going to turn into a hideous grow-bag-c.u.m-milk-dispensing-machine which no one will fancy and which will not fit into any of my trousers, particularly my brand new acid-green Agnes B jeans. This confusion, I guess, is the price I must pay for becoming a modern woman instead of following the course nature intended by marrying Abnor r.i.m.m.i.n.gton off the Northampton bus when I was eighteen.
When Sharon arrived I sulkily thrust the pregnancy test with its tell-tale blue line, at her under the table.
"Is this it?" she said.
"Of course it"s it," I muttered. "What do you think it is? A portable phone?"
"You," she said, "are a ridiculous human being. Didn"t you read the instructions? There are supposed to be two lines. This line is just to show the test is working. One line means you"re not not pregnant - you ninny." pregnant - you ninny."
Got home to an answerphone message from my mother saying, "Darling, call me immediately. My nerves are shot to ribbons." ribbons."
Her nerves are shot to ribbons! nerves are shot to ribbons!
Friday 5 May
9st (oh sod it, cannot break weighing habit of lifetime, particularly after pregnancy trauma - will get therapy of some kindin future), alcohol units 6 (hurrah!), cigarettes 25, calories future), alcohol units 6 (hurrah!), cigarettes 25, calories 1895, Instants 3. 1895, Instants 3.
Spent the morning mooning abut in mourning for lost baby but cheered up a bit when Tom called to suggest a lunchtime b.l.o.o.d.y Mary to get the weekend off to a healthy start. Got home to find a petulant message from Mother saying she"s gone to a health farm and will call me later. I wonder what"s the matter. Probably overwhelmed by too many Tiffany"s boxes from love-sick suitors and TV presenter job offers from rival production companies.
11.45 p.m. Daniel just called from Manchester. Daniel just called from Manchester.
"Had a good week?" he said.
"Super, thanks," I said brightly. Super, thanks. Huh! I read somewhere that the best gift a woman can bring to a main is tranquillity, so I could hardly, as soon as we"ve started properly going out, admit that the minute his back was turned I started having neurotic hysterics over a phantom pregnancy.
Oh well. Who cares. We"re seeing each other tomorrow night. Hurray! Laialala.
Sat.u.r.day 6 May: VE Day
9st 1, alcohol units 6, cigarettes 25, calories 3800 (but celebrating anniversary of end of rationing), correct lottery numbers 0 (poor).
Awake on VE Day in unseasonable heatwave trying to whip up frenzy of emotion in self about end of war, freedom of Europe, marvellous, marvellous, etc. etc. Feel extremely miserable about whole business, to tell truth. In fact, "left out" might be the expression I am groping towards. I do not have any grandpas. Dad has got all worked up about a party being hosted in the Alconburys" garden at which, for unexplained reasons, he will be tossing pancakes. Mum is going back to the street she was brought up in in Cheltenham for a whale-meat fritter party, probably with Julio. (Thank G.o.d she didn"t run off with a German.) None of my friends are organizing anything. It would seem embarra.s.singly enthusiastic and all wrong, somehow, suggesting a positive approach to life or that we were trying creepily to annex something that was nothing to do with us. I mean, I probably wasn"t even an egg when the war ended. I was just nothing: while they were all fighting and making jam out of carrots or whatever they did.
I hate this idea and toy with calling Mum to see if she had started her periods when the war ended. Do eggs get produced one at a time, I wonder, or are they stored from birth in micro-form until they are activated"? Could I have somehow sensed the end of the war as a stored egg? If only I had a grandpa I could have got in on the whole thing under the guise of being nice to him. Oh, sod it, I am going to go shopping.
7 p.m. The heat has made my body double -in size, I swear. I am never going in a communal changing room again. I got a dress stuck under my arms in Warehouse while trying to lift it off and ended up lurching around with inside-out fabric instead of a head, tugging at it with my arms in the air, rippling stomach and thighs on full display to the a.s.sembled sn.i.g.g.e.ring fifteen-year-olds. When I tried to pull the stupid dress down and get out of it the other way it got stuck on my hips. The heat has made my body double -in size, I swear. I am never going in a communal changing room again. I got a dress stuck under my arms in Warehouse while trying to lift it off and ended up lurching around with inside-out fabric instead of a head, tugging at it with my arms in the air, rippling stomach and thighs on full display to the a.s.sembled sn.i.g.g.e.ring fifteen-year-olds. When I tried to pull the stupid dress down and get out of it the other way it got stuck on my hips.
I hate communal changing rooms. Everyone stares sneakily at each other"s bodies, but no one ever meets anyone"s eye. There are always girls who know that they look fantastic in everything and dance around beaming, swinging their hair and doing model poses in the mirror saying, "Does it make me look fat?" to their obligatory obese friend, who looks like a water buffalo in everything.
It was a disaster of a trip, anyway. The answer to shopping, I know, is simply to buy a few choice items from Nicole Farhi, Whistles and Joseph but the prices so terrify me that I go scuttling back to Warehouse and Miss Selfridge, rejoicing in a host of dresses at 34.99, get them stuck on my head, then buy things from Marks & Spencer because I don"t have to try them on, and at least I"ve bought something.
I have come home with four things, all them unsuitable and unflattering. One will be left behind the bedroom chair in an M&S bag for two years. The other three will be exchanged for credit notes from Boules, Warehouse, etc., which I will then lose. I have thus wasted 119, which would have been enough to buy something really nice from Nicole Farhi, like a very small T-shirt.
It is all a punishment, I realize, for being obsessed by shopping in a shallow, materialistic way instead of wearing the same rayon frock all summer and painting a line down the back of my legs; also for failing to join in the VE Day celebrations. Maybe I should ring Tom and get a lovely party together for Bank Holiday Monday. Is it possible to have kitsch ironic VE day party - like for the Royal Wedding? No, you see, you can"t be ironic about dead people. And then there"s the problem of flags. Half of Tom"s friends used to be in the Anti-n.a.z.i league and would think the presence of Union Jacks meant we were expecting skinheads. I wonder what would have happened if our generation had had a war? Ah well, time for a little drinkv. Daniel will be here soon. Best start preparations.
11.59 p.m. Blimey. Hiding in kitchen having a f.a.g. Daniel is asleep. Actually, I think he"s pretending to be asleep. Completely Completely weird evening. Realized that our entire relationship so far has been based on the idea that one or other of us is supposed to be resisting having s.e.x. Spending an evening together when the idea was that we were weird evening. Realized that our entire relationship so far has been based on the idea that one or other of us is supposed to be resisting having s.e.x. Spending an evening together when the idea was that we were supposed supposed to have s.e.x at the end of it was nothing short of bizarre. We sat watching VE Day on television with Daniel"s arm uncomfortably round my shoulders as if we were two fourteen-year-olds in the cinema. It was really digging into the back of my neck but I didn"t feel I could ask him to move it. Then when it was getting impossible to avoid the subject of bedtime any longer we went all formal and English. Instead of tearing each other"s clothes off like beasts, we stood there going, "Do use the bathroom first." to have s.e.x at the end of it was nothing short of bizarre. We sat watching VE Day on television with Daniel"s arm uncomfortably round my shoulders as if we were two fourteen-year-olds in the cinema. It was really digging into the back of my neck but I didn"t feel I could ask him to move it. Then when it was getting impossible to avoid the subject of bedtime any longer we went all formal and English. Instead of tearing each other"s clothes off like beasts, we stood there going, "Do use the bathroom first."
"No! After you!"
"No, no no! After you!"
"Really! I insist."
"No, no, I won"t hear of it. Let me find you a guest towel and some miniature seash.e.l.l-shaped soaps."
Then we ended up lying side by side and not touching, like we were Morecambe and Wise or John Noakes and Valerie Singleton in the Blue Peter House. If there is a G.o.d I would like to humbly ask Him - whilst making it clear that I am deeply grateful for His suddenly turning Daniel inexplicably into a regular feature after so much f.u.c.kwittage - to stop him getting into bed at night wearing pyjamas and reading gla.s.ses, staring at a book for 25 minutes then switching off the light and turning over - and turn him back into the naked l.u.s.t-crazed s.e.x beast I used to know and love.
Thanking you for your kind attention, Lord, regarding this matter.
Sat.u.r.day 13 May
9st 1lb 8oz, cigarettes 7, calories 1145, Instants 5 (won 2 therefore total Instants expenditure only 3 v.g.), Lottery proper 2, number of correct numbers I (better).
How come have put on only 8oz after last night"s over-consumption orgy?
Maybe food and weight are the same as garlic and stenchful breath: if you eat several entire bulbs your breath doesn"t smell at all, similarly if eat huge amount does not cause weight gain: strangely cheering theory but creates V. bad situation in head. Would welcome removal for thorough valeting. Still, was worth it for delicious night of drunken feminist ranting with Sharon and Jude.
An unbelievable amount of food and wine was consumed since the generous girls, as well as bringing a bottle of wine each, had all brought a little extra something from M&S. Therefore, in addition to the three-course meal and two bottles of wine (1 fizzy, 1 white) I had already bought from M&S (I mean prepared by entire day"s slaving over hot stove) we had:
1 tub hummus & pkt mini-pittas.
12 smoked salmon and cream cheese pinwheels.
12 mini-pizzas.
1 raspberry pavlova.
1 tiramisu (party size).
2 Swiss Mountain Bars.
Sharon was on top form. "b.a.s.t.a.r.ds!" she was already yelling by 8.35, pouring three-quarters of a gla.s.s of Kir Royale straight down her throat. "Stupid, smug, arrogant, manipulative, self-indulgent b.a.s.t.a.r.ds. They exist in a total Culture of Ent.i.tlement. Pa.s.s me one of those mini-pizzas, will you?"
Jude was depressed because Vile Richard, with whom she is currently split up, keeps ringing her, dropping little verbal baits suggesting he wants to get back together to make sure he keeps her interested, but protecting himself by saying he just wants to be "friends" (fraudulent, poisoned concept). Then last night he made an incredibly a.s.sumptive, patronizing phone call, asking her if she was going to a mutual friend"s party. Jude was depressed because Vile Richard, with whom she is currently split up, keeps ringing her, dropping little verbal baits suggesting he wants to get back together to make sure he keeps her interested, but protecting himself by saying he just wants to be "friends" (fraudulent, poisoned concept). Then last night he made an incredibly a.s.sumptive, patronizing phone call, asking her if she was going to a mutual friend"s party.
"Ah well, in that case I won"t come," he said. "No. It really wouldn"t be fair to you. You see, I was going to bring this, sort of, date with me. I mean, it"s nothing. It"s just some girl who"s stupid enough to let me s.h.a.g her for a couple of weeks."
"What?" exploded Sharon, beginning to turn pink. "That"s the most repulsive thing I"ve ever heard anyone say about a woman. Arrogant little prat prat! How dare he give himself license to treat you any way he likes under the name of friendship, then make himself feel clever by trying to upset you with his stupid new date. If he really minded about not hurting your feelings he"d just shut up and come to the party on his own instead of waving his stupid date under your nose."