Sat.u.r.day 20 May
9st 3 (why? Why? from where?), alcohol units7 (Sat.u.r.day), cigarettes 17 (positively restrained, considering), number of 17 (positively restrained, considering), number of correct lottery numbers 0 (but v. distracted by correct lottery numbers 0 (but v. distracted by filming). filming).
The crew had trodden a couple of wine gla.s.ses into the carpet before they"d been in the house thirty seconds, but I"m not too fussed about that sort of thing. It was when one of them staggered in shouting, "Mind your backs," carrying an enormous light with flaps on it, then bellowed, "Trevor, where do you want this brute?" overbalanced, crashed the light through the gla.s.s door of the kitchen cupboard and knocked an open bottle of extra virgin olive oil over on to my River Cafe cookbook that I realized what I"d done.
Three hours after they arrived, filming had still not begun and they were still boshing around saying, "Can I just cheat you this way a bit, love?" By the time we finally got going, with Mother and I sitting opposite each other in semidarkness, it was nearly half past one.
"And tell me," she was saying "in a caring, understanding voice I"d never heard before, "when your husband left you, did you have" - she was almost whispering now - "suicidal thoughts?"
I stared at her incredulously.
"I know this is painful for you. If you feel you"re going to break down we can stop for a moment," she said hopefully.
I was too livid to speak. What husband?
"I mean, it must be a terrible time, with no partner on the horizon and that biological clock ticking away," she said, kicking me under the table. I kicked her back and she jumped and let out a little noise.
"Don"t you want a child?" she said, handing me a tissue.
At this point there was a loud snort of laughter from the back of the room. I had thought it would be fine to leave Daniel asleep in the bedroom because he never wakes up tiff after lunch on Sat.u.r.days and I"d put his cigarettes on the pillow next to him.
"If Bridget had a child she"d lose it," he guffawed. "Pleased to meet you, Mrs Jones. Bridget, why can"t you get all done up on Sat.u.r.days like your mum?"
Sunday 21 May
My mum is not speaking to either of us for humiliating her and exposing her as a fraud in front of her crew. At least she might leave us alone for a bit now. So much looking forward to the summer, anyway. Will be so lovely having a boyfriend when it is warm. We will be able to go on romantic mini-breaks. V. happy.
June
Hah! Boyfriend
Sat.u.r.day 3 June
8st13, alcohol units 5, alcohol units 5, cigarettes 25, calories 600, minutes spent looking at brochures: long-haul 45, mini-break 87, 1471 cigarettes 25, calories 600, minutes spent looking at brochures: long-haul 45, mini-break 87, 1471 calls 7 (g.). calls 7 (g.).
Finding it impossible to concentrate on almost anything in the heat except fantasies about going on mini-breaks with Daniel. Head is filled with visions of us lying in glades by rivers, me in long white floaty dress, Daniel and I sitting outside ancient Cornish waterside pub sipping pints in matching striped T-shirts and watching the sun set over the sea; Daniel and I eating candlelit dinners in historic country-house-hotel courtyards then retiring to our room to s.h.a.g all hot summer night.
Anyway. Daniel and I are going to a party tonight at his friend Wicksy"s, then tomorrow I expect we will go to the park or out to a lovely pub in the country for lunch. It is marvellous having a boyfriend.
Sunday 4 June
9st,alcohol units 3 units 3 (g.), cigarettes 13 (g.), Minutes (g.), cigarettes 13 (g.), Minutes spent looking at brochures: spent looking at brochures: long-haul 30 (g.), mini-break 52, long-haul 30 (g.), mini-break 52, 1471 calls 3 (g.). 1471 calls 3 (g.).
7 p.m. Humph. Daniel has just gone home. Bit fed up, actually. Was really lovely hot Sunday but Daniel did not want to go out or discuss mini-breaks and insisted on spending all afternoon with the curtains drawn, watching the cricket. Also the party was quite nice last night, but at one point we went over to join Wicksy and a very pretty girl he was talking to. I did notice, as we approached, that she looked rather defensive. Humph. Daniel has just gone home. Bit fed up, actually. Was really lovely hot Sunday but Daniel did not want to go out or discuss mini-breaks and insisted on spending all afternoon with the curtains drawn, watching the cricket. Also the party was quite nice last night, but at one point we went over to join Wicksy and a very pretty girl he was talking to. I did notice, as we approached, that she looked rather defensive.
"Daniel," said Wicksy, "have you met Vanessa?"
"No," said Daniel, putting on his most flirtatious seductive grin and holding out his hand. "Nice to meet you."
"Daniel," said Vanessa, folding her arms and looking absolutely livid, "We"ve slept together." slept together."
G.o.d, it"s hot. Quite like leaning out of the window. Someone is playing a saxophone in effort to pretend we are all in a film set in New York, and can hear voices all around because everyone"s windows are open, and smell cooking from restaurants. Hmm. Think would like to move to New York: though probably, come to think of it, not v. g. area for mini-breaks. Unless mini-break actually is to New York, which would be pointless if one were already in New York.
Will just ring Tom then get down to work.
8 p.m. Just going round to Tom for a quick drink. Just for half an hour. Just going round to Tom for a quick drink. Just for half an hour.
Tuesday 6 June
9st 2, alcoholunits 4, cigarettes 3 (v.g.), (v.g.), calories 1326, calories 1326, Instants 0 (excellent), 1471 calls 12 (bad), hours spent asleep Instants 0 (excellent), 1471 calls 12 (bad), hours spent asleep 15 15 (bad, but not self"s fault as heatwave). (bad, but not self"s fault as heatwave).
Managed to persuade Perpetua to let me stay at home to work. Certain she only agreed because she wants to sunbathe too. Mmmm. Got lovely new mini-break brochure: "Pride of Britain: Leading Country House Hotels of the British Isles". Marvellous. Going through all pages one by one imagining Daniel and me being alternately s.e.xual and romantic in all the bedrooms and dining rooms.
11 a.m. Right: am going to, concentrate now. Right: am going to, concentrate now.
11.25 a.m. Hmmm, got a bit of a scratchy nail. Hmmm, got a bit of a scratchy nail.
11.35 a.m. G.o.d. I just started having paranoid fantasy for no reason about Daniel having an affair with someone else and thinking up dignified but cutting remarks to make him sorry. Now why should that be? Have I sensed with a woman"s intuition that he is having an affair?
The trouble with trying to go out with people when you get older is that everything becomes so loaded. When you are partnerless in your thirties, the mild bore of not being in a relationship - no s.e.x, not having anyone to hang out with on Sundays, going home from parties on your own all the time - gets infused with the paranoid notion that the reason you are not in a relationship is your age, you have had your last ever relationship and s.e.xual experience ever, and it is all your fault for being too wild or wilful to settle down in the first bloom of youth.
You completely forget the fact that when you were twenty-two and you didn"t have boyfriend or meet anyone you remotely fancied for twenty-three months you just thought it was a bit of a drag. The whole thing builds up out of all proportion, so finding a relationship seems a dazzling, almost insurmountable goal, and when you do start going out with someone it cannot possibly live up to expectations.
Is it that? Or is it that there is something wrong with me being with Daniel? Is Daniel having an affair?
11.50 a.m. Hmmm. Nail really Hmmm. Nail really is is scratchy. Actually, if don"t do something about it I"ll start picking at it and next thing I"ll have no fingernail left. Right, I"d better go and find an emery board. Come to think of it, this nail varnish generally is looking a bit scrotty. I really need to take it all off and start again. Might as well do it now while I think about it. scratchy. Actually, if don"t do something about it I"ll start picking at it and next thing I"ll have no fingernail left. Right, I"d better go and find an emery board. Come to think of it, this nail varnish generally is looking a bit scrotty. I really need to take it all off and start again. Might as well do it now while I think about it.
Noon. It is such a b.l.o.o.d.y bore when the weather is so hot and one"s It is such a b.l.o.o.d.y bore when the weather is so hot and one"s soi-disant soi-disant boyfriend refuses to go anywhere nice with you. Feel he thinks I am trying to trap him into a mini-break; as if it were not a mini-break but marriage, three kids and cleaning out the toilet in house full of stripped pine in Stoke Newington. I think this is turning into a psychological crisis. I"m going to call Tom (can always do the catalogue stuff for Perpetua this evening). boyfriend refuses to go anywhere nice with you. Feel he thinks I am trying to trap him into a mini-break; as if it were not a mini-break but marriage, three kids and cleaning out the toilet in house full of stripped pine in Stoke Newington. I think this is turning into a psychological crisis. I"m going to call Tom (can always do the catalogue stuff for Perpetua this evening).
12.30 p.m. Hmmm. Tom says if you go mini-breaking with somebody you are having a relationship with you spend the whole time worrying about how the relationship is going, so it is better just to go with a friend. Hmmm. Tom says if you go mini-breaking with somebody you are having a relationship with you spend the whole time worrying about how the relationship is going, so it is better just to go with a friend.
Apart from s.e.x, I say. Apart from s.e.x, he agrees. I"m going to meet Tom tonight with brochures to plan fantasy, or phantom mini-break. So I must work really hard this afternoon.
12.40 p.m. These shorts and T-shirt are too uncomfortable in this heat. I"m going to change into a long floaty dress. These shorts and T-shirt are too uncomfortable in this heat. I"m going to change into a long floaty dress.
Oh dear, my pants show through this dress now. I"d better put some flesh-coloured ones on in case someone comes to the door. Now, my Gossard Glossies ones would be perfect. I wonder where they are.
12.45 p.m. In fact think might put the Glossies- bra on to match if I can find it. In fact think might put the Glossies- bra on to match if I can find it.
12.55 p.m. That"s better. That"s better.
1 p.m. Lunchtime! At last a bit of time off. Lunchtime! At last a bit of time off.
2 p.m. OK, so this afternoon I am really going to work and get everything done before the evening, then can go out. V. sleepy, though. It"s so hot. Maybe I"ll just close my eyes for five minutes. Catnaps are said to be an excellent way of reviving oneself. Used to excellent effect by Margaret Thatcher and Winston Churchill. Good idea. Maybe I"ll lie down on the bed. OK, so this afternoon I am really going to work and get everything done before the evening, then can go out. V. sleepy, though. It"s so hot. Maybe I"ll just close my eyes for five minutes. Catnaps are said to be an excellent way of reviving oneself. Used to excellent effect by Margaret Thatcher and Winston Churchill. Good idea. Maybe I"ll lie down on the bed.
7.30 p.m. Oh, b.l.o.o.d.y h.e.l.l. Oh, b.l.o.o.d.y h.e.l.l.