When he comes to that part of his narrative, where he mentions of the proposing of the Lady"s maid Hannah, or one of the young Sorlings, to attend her, thus he writes:
Now, Belford, canst thou imagine what I meant by proposing Hannah, or one of the girls here, for her attendant? I"ll give thee a month to guess.
Thou wilt not pretend to guess, thou say"st.
Well, then I"ll tell thee.
Believing she would certainly propose to have that favourite wench about her, as soon as she was a little settled, I had caused the girl to be inquired after, with an intent to make interest, some how or other, that a month"s warning should be insisted on by her master or mistress, or by some other means, which I had not determined upon, to prevent her coming to her. But fortune fights for me. The wench is luckily ill; a violent rheumatic disorder, which has obliged her to leave her place, confines her to her chamber. Poor Hannah! How I pity the girl! These things are very hard upon industrious servants!--I intend to make the poor wench a small present on the occasion--I know it will oblige my charmer.
And so, Jack, pretending not to know any thing of the matter, I pressed her to send for Hannah. She knew I had always a regard for this servant, because of her honest love to her lady: but now I have greater regard for her than ever. Calamity, though a poor servant"s calamity, will rather increase than diminish good will, with a truly generous master or mistress.
As to one of the young Sorling"s attendance, there was nothing at all in proposing that; for if either of them had been chosen by her, and permitted by the mother [two chances in that!] it would have been only till I had fixed upon another. And, if afterwards they had been loth to part, I could easily have given my beloved to a jealousy, which would have done the business; or to the girl, who would have quitted her country dairy, such a relish for a London one, and as would have made it very convenient for her to fall in love with Will; or perhaps I could have done still better for her with Lord M."s chaplain, who is very desirous of standing well with his lord"s presumptive heir.
A blessing on thy honest heart, Lovelace! thou"lt say; for thou art for providing for every body!
He gives an account of the serious part of their conversation, with no great variation from the Lady"s account of it: and when he comes to that part of it, where he bids her remember, that reformation cannot be a sudden thing, he asks his friend:
Is not this fair play? Is it not dealing ingenuously? Then the observation, I will be bold to say, is founded in truth and nature. But there was a little touch of policy in it besides; that the lady, if I should fly out again, should not think me too gross an hypocrite: for, as I plainly told her, I was afraid, that my fits of reformation were but fits and sallies; but I hoped her example would fix them into habits. But it is so discouraging a thing to have my monitress so very good!--I protest I know not how to look up at her! Now, as I am thinking, if I could pull her down a little nearer to my own level; that is to say, could prevail upon her to do something that would argue imperfection, something to repent of; we should jog on much more equally, and be better able to comprehend one another: and so the comfort would be mutual, and the remorse not all on one side.
He acknowledges that he was greatly affected and pleased with the Lady"s serious arguments at the time: but even then was apprehensive that his temper would not hold. Thus he writes:
This lady says serious things in so agreeable a manner (and then her voice is all harmony when she touches a subject she is pleased with) that I could have listened to her for half a day together. But yet I am afraid, if she falls, as they call it, she will lose a good deal of that pathos, of that n.o.ble self-confidence, which gives a good person, as I now see, a visible superiority over one not so good.
But, after all, Belford, I would fain know why people call such free-livers as you and me hypocrites.--That"s a word I hate; and should take it very ill to be called by it. For myself, I have as good motions, and, perhaps, have them as frequently as any body: all the business is, they don"t hold; or, to speak more in character, I don"t take the care some do to conceal my lapses.
LETTER XXVII
MISS HOWE, TO MIS CLARISSA HARLOWE SAt.u.r.dAY, APRIL 15.
Though pretty much pressed in time, and oppressed by my mother"s watchfulness, I will write a few lines upon the new light that has broken in upon your gentleman; and send it by a particular hand.
I know not what to think of him upon it. He talks well; but judge him by Rowe"s lines, he is certainly a dissembler, odious as the sin of hypocrisy, and, as he says, that other of ingrat.i.tude, are to him.
And, pray, my dear, let me ask, could he have triumphed, as it is said he has done, over so many of our s.e.x, had he not been egregiously guilty of both sins?
His ingenuousness is the thing that staggers me: yet is he cunning enough to know, that whoever accuses him first, blunts the edge of an adversary"s accusation.
He is certainly a man of sense: there is more hope of such a one than a fool: and there must be a beginning to a reformation. These I will allow in his favour.
But this, that follows, I think, is the only way to judge of his specious confessions and self-accusations--Does he confess any thing that you knew not before, or that you are not likely to find out from others?--If nothing else, what does he confess to his own disadvantage?
You have heard of his duels: you have heard of his seductions.--All the world has. He owns, therefore, what it would be to no purpose to conceal; and his ingenuousness is a salvo--"Why, this, Madam, is no more than Mr. Lovelace himself acknowledges."
Well, but what is now to be done?--You must make the best of your situation: and as you say, so he has proposed to you of Windsor, and his canon"s house. His readiness to leave you, and go himself in quest of a lodging, likewise looks well. And I think there is nothing can be so properly done, as (whether you get to a canon"s house or not) that the canon should join you together in wedlock as soon as possible.
I much approve, however, of all your cautions, of all your vigilance, and of every thing you have done, but of your meeting him. Yet, in my disapprobation of that, I judge by that event only: for who would have divined it would have been concluded as it did? But he is the devil by his own account: and had he run away with the wretched Solmes, and your more wretched brother, and himself been transported for life, he should have had my free consent for all three.
What use does he make of that Joseph Leman!--His ingenuousness, I must more than once say, confounds me; but if, my dear, you can forgive your brother for the part he put that fellow upon acting, I don"t know whether you ought to be angry at Lovelace. Yet I have wished fifty times, since Lovelace got you away, that you were rid of him, whether it were by a burning fever, by hanging, by drowning, or by a broken neck; provided it were before he laid you under a necessity to go into mourning for him.
I repeat my hitherto rejected offer. May I send it safely by your old man? I have reasons for not sending it by Hickman"s servant; unless I had a bank note. Inquiring for such may cause distrust. My mother is so busy, so inquisitive--I don"t love suspicious tempers.
And here she is continually in and out--I must break off.
Mr. Hickman begs his most respectful compliments to you, with offer of his services. I told him I would oblige him, because minds in trouble take kindly any body"s civilities: but that he was not to imagine that he particularly obliged me by this; since I should think the man or woman either blind or stupid who admired not a person of your exalted merit for your own sake, and wished not to serve you without view to other reward than the honour of serving you.
To be sure, that was his princ.i.p.al motive, with great daintiness he said it: but with a kiss of his hand, and a bow to my feet, he hoped, that a fine lady"s being my friend did not lessen the merit of the reverence he really had for her.
Believe me ever, what you, my dear, shall ever find me,
Your faithful and affectionate, ANNA HOWE.
LETTER XXVIII
MISS CLARISSA HARLOWE, TO MISS HOWE SAT. AFTERNOON.
I detain your messenger while I write an answer to yours; the poor old man not being very well.
You dishearten me a good deal about Mr. Lovelace. I may be too willing from my sad circ.u.mstances to think the best of him. If his pretences to reformation are but pretences, what must be his intent? But can the heart of man be so very vile? Can he, dare he, mock the Almighty? But I may not, from one very sad reflection, think better of him; that I am thrown too much into his power, to make it necessary for him (except he were to intend the very utmost villany by me) to be such a shocking hypocrite? He must, at least be in earnest at the time he gives the better hopes. Surely he must. You yourself must join with me in this hope, or you could not wish me to be so dreadfully yoked.
But after all, I had rather, much rather, be independent of him, and of his family, although I have an high opinion of them; at least till I see what my own may be brought to.--Otherwise, I think, it were best for me, at once, to cast myself into Lady Betty"s protection. All would then be conducted with decency, and perhaps many mortifications would be spared me. But then I must be his, at all adventures, and be thought to defy my own family. And shall I not first see the issue of one application? And yet I cannot make this, till I am settled somewhere, and at a distance from him.
Mrs. Sorlings shewed me a letter this morning, which she had received from her sister Greme last night; in which Mrs. Greme (hoping I would forgive her forward zeal if her sister thinks fit to shew her letter to me) "wishes (and that for all the n.o.ble family"s sake, and she hopes she may say for my own) that I will be pleased to yield to make his honour, as she calls him, happy." She grounds her officiousness, as she calls it, upon what he was so condescending [her word also] to say to her yesterday, in his way to Windsor, on her presuming to ask, if she might soon give him joy? "That no man ever loved a woman as he loves me: that no woman ever so well deserved to be beloved: that he loves me with such a purity as he had never believed himself capable of, or that a mortal creature could have inspired him with; looking upon me as all soul; as an angel sent down to save his;" and a great deal more of this sort: "but that he apprehends my consent to make him happy is at a greater distance than he wishes; and complained of too severe restrictions I had laid upon him before I honoured him with my confidence: which restrictions must be as sacred to him, as if they were parts of the marriage contract," &c.
What, my dear, shall I say to this? How shall I take it? Mrs. Greme is a good woman. Mrs. Sorlings is a good woman. And this letter agrees with the conversation between Mr. Lovelace and me, which I thought, and still think, so agreeable.* Yet what means the man by foregoing the opportunities he has had to declare himself?--What mean his complaints of my restrictions to Mrs. Greme? He is not a bashful man.--But you say, I inspire people with an awe of me.--An awe, my dear!--As how?
* This letter Mrs. Greme (with no bad design on her part) was put upon writing by Mr. Lovelace himself, as will be seen in Letter x.x.xV.
I am quite petulant, fretful, and peevish, with myself, at times, to find that I am bound to see the workings of the subtle, or this giddy spirit, which shall I call it?
How am I punished, as I frequently think, for my vanity, in hoping to be an example to young persons of my s.e.x! Let me be but a warning, and I will now be contented. For, be my destiny what it may, I shall never be able to hold up my head again among my best friends and worthiest companions.
It is one of the cruelest circ.u.mstances that attends the faults of the inconsiderate, that she makes all who love her unhappy, and gives joy only to her own enemies, and to the enemies of her family.
What an useful lesson would this afford, were it properly inculcated at the time that the tempted mind was balancing upon a doubtful adventure?