"We"re fine, love," I rea.s.sured her. "I promise."
And that was exactly how I did feel. A new Monday, and I was full of a new determination to make progress. I was intent on getting the support Sophia needed and, just as I"d said to Riley, I wasn"t going to stop until I got her some. I was feeling better in all senses. We"d had a peaceful afternoon, I"d had a much better night"s sleep, and best of all was that Kieron had called on Sunday evening and promised to come home again after college this evening, provided we had settled Sophia down.
But once Sophia had left for school and Mike for work, I still took some time to get my facts in order, going through my log and listing each occurrence separately, so I could present a coherent case for more support. I really needed to paint a clear picture of how things were escalating, making it clear that her medical condition, initially deemed to be the main challenge, was now secondary to the stability of her mind.
"I think you"re right, Casey," John conceded after I"d read my list out to him. "It does seem like she"s unravelling emotionally, doesn"t it? This obviously runs deeper than we"ve been led to believe. And I"m sorry. Sorry that you and Mike are having to go through all this upset." He sighed. "Victims of your own success, you two, I think. We all just a.s.sume that you"re dealing with everything. We"ve not been very supportive here, have we?"
"We don"t feel like that, John," I said. "We know you"re there if we need you. I just feel very strongly that this needs to be flagged up as urgent we need to access appropriate help for her."
Happily, John promised me that"s what we"d get. He would, he said, get in touch with social services for me, plus contact CAMHS and see what could be sorted. "And I"ll call you later," he finished, "so we can arrange for us all to meet up."
Ah, meetings, I thought, as I put down the phone. There was always the promise of a meeting to hang on to. Nothing immediate, of course. Just another meeting. That was the way it was in social work, miles of red tape that couldn"t be cut. And, great as social services were and they were there was rarely a sense of any urgency to make or break lives at these meetings. Perhaps the real trick would be to kindly ask these poor kids if they could just put their emotional breakdowns on hold for a couple of weeks.
I went into the kitchen to make some toast. I felt frustrated. There was nothing I could do now but wait. But in the meantime I could perhaps go and shop for a new handbag. Now that would cheer me up, I thought. A brilliant idea. And then I smiled to myself at the way my mind worked. Here I was, almost at breaking point, my poor son struggling with living in his own home, and all I could think about was buying handbags!
I didn"t rush, however, and John was back on the phone before I left, with the news that CAMHS had agreed to see Sophia as a one-off and that he would speak to all involved re the timings. No promises, as she would still need to fulfil their criteria, but at least it was a start.
I went off to the shops in happier mood. One which sadly, however, wasn"t to last. It was around 1 p.m. by the time I"d scratched my handbag itch sufficiently, buying a beautiful, shiny, red patent number, that was gorgeous and perfect but still not so costly that it would need to spend time hidden from Mike at the back of the wardrobe. I was just thinking about some lunch when my phone rang.
"h.e.l.looo!" I answered chirpily, not even glancing at the display, as I"d fully expected it to be Riley.
"Mrs Watson? Casey? It"s Mr Barker. Sorry to disturb you, but can you talk?"
My heart sank. Mr Barker as in Sophia"s head of year. "Yes, of course," I said. "Is she ill again?"
"Not this time," he answered. "Though it"s rather serious even so. Were you aware she brought a mobile phone into school this morning?"
s.h.i.t, I thought. I didn"t even think about that.
"No, I wasn"t," I said, thinking privately that he was going a bit overboard. Loads of kids took their phones into school. "But listen," I went on. "That"s my fault. It was a birthday present and I never thought about telling her they weren"t allowed in school."
"It"s not the fact that she brought it in," Mr Barker said. "It"s what she"s been doing with it that"s the problem."
"I don"t understand."
"We"ve just had a visit from a very angry parent. Jake Enfield"s mum just brought him back in from lunch, complaining about some disturbing pictures on his phone that had apparently been sent to him by Sophia."
Oh, no ... "What kind of photos?"
"Naked photos, essentially. And I gather from Jake that quite a few of the boys have had them."
"Oh good Lord! I"ll come straight up. a.s.suming you want me to. Is she in cla.s.s at the moment?"
"No, we"ve got her in the medical room. She"s refusing to hand over her phone to us, and we were hoping you might be able to persuade her. We need to know who else has the pictures so we can be sure they"re all deleted."
I felt both angry and dismayed as I left town and drove to the school. After all we"d said yesterday! What on earth had possessed her? But what point was there in trying to fathom her out? That was the problem. You couldn"t try to rationalise such unfathomable behaviour. That was precisely why we needed the mental health team.
When I arrived in the medical room she was sitting stubbornly in the corner, clutching her school bag as if her life depended on it. Think, Casey, think. How to play this.
I sat opposite her, trying to focus her attention on me, rather than the angry-looking teacher who"d followed me in there. Mr Barker was there too, standing to one side of her.
"You okay, love?" I said gently. "I"ve just been saying to Mr Barker that this is partly my fault for forgetting to tell you this morning. Mobiles aren"t allowed in school."
Sophia just stared incredulously. "Everyone brings their phones into school, Casey."
"I dare say," I agreed. "But now you"ve been caught with yours, you"re not going to be allowed to bring it in again."
"Fine!" she snapped. "So I"m being sent home now, right? In which case, can we just leave now?"
"In a minute, sweetheart. I just need to delete those silly pictures first. We don"t want everyone looking at them, do we?"
"I"ve already deleted them," she said, looking daggers at the other teacher. "You think I wanted these pervs gawping at me?"
"Don"t be rude," I said mildly. "And I still need the phone. It"s not just that they"re gone, it"s who else already has them. You don"t want a load of other parents seeing them, do you?"
It seemed to dawn on her, then, that this was now out of her control. She undid the zip on her bag and practically threw the phone at me, and we soon had, even with my limited phone skills, the numbers of six other boys she"d sent the pictures to.
Thankfully, the school were happy to leave things at that, even though I knew that they had their own view on my softly-softly approach to disciplining her. But I was reticent about mentioning the mental health team as yet, because I didn"t want to destabilise her life further by having them get involved and "label" her. At least not until I knew where we were going.
As for Sophia, we were going nowhere fast. On the way home she simply made good use of her right to silence and doggedly refused to answer any of my questions. Which did the trick. I decided to give up trying.
I kept the phone, though. If she refused to play ball, then so did I. Perhaps it would at least make her reflect on the consequences of her actions. But what I didn"t expect was that it would do exactly that while Sophia reflected on the consequences of her actions, I"d be reflecting on the possible consequences of Mike"s.
It was Thursday when it happened. Around 9 p.m. Mike and I were sitting watching the news when the phone rang in the hall. Kieron was in his room and Sophia was asleep in bed, and my first thought my only thought was that it must be my mum. She often called at this time, when she knew we could chat in peace and, like many her age, she didn"t much do mobiles.
But it wasn"t my mum, it was Jean, Sophia"s previous carer.
"Oh, h.e.l.lo," I said, once she"d introduced herself to me and I"d had that whole "Jean? Jean who?" thing run quickly through my mind. I"d only met her once, after all. "How are you?" I said, conscious of how ill she"d been.
"Oh, I"m fine," she said, her voice clipped and curt. "Thank you very much. Although I can"t say the same for Sophia."
Both the words and the tone did two things. One was to get my hackles up. Who"d speak to a near stranger in such an aggressive way? And the other was to make me do a double take. How would she know how Sophia was? We were the ones looking after her. Very odd. Then I had a thought. Had John said something to her? I doubted it. But even if he had, what was with the sarcasm?
"I"m afraid you"ve lost me, Jean," I answered pleasantly, albeit with gritted teeth. "What about Sophia?"
"She hasn"t rung me for three days, so I know something"s wrong." Again, that accusatory tone. "I"ve been trying her mobile," she continued, "and it"s going straight to voicemail. Now why would that be?"
Now I was confused as well as irritated. Three days? What did she mean? When had she been speaking to Sophia?
"I don"t understand," I said. "Have you been on the phone to Sophia?"
Mike had turned down the TV and come out into the hall. He was watching me, puzzled, making a "what?" face.
"Yes, of course, "Jean replied. "She phones me often. Well, when she can get to the phone and have some privacy, that is ... I had hoped that with her mobile it would get a little easier, but it seems you"ve put a stop to that too, have you?"
Had it been long enough, my jaw would have hit the floor about now.
"What?" I said. "Jean, Sophia has no business phoning you. Not without our permission, anyway. And the mobile we bought her is none of your business. And, frankly, I don"t like your tone."
"Oh, I"ll bet you don"t," she barked back at me, almost shouting now. "Were you afraid she might tell me all about how she was dragged bodily up the stairs by your husband? Well, you"re too late, because ..."
Now it was my turn to raise my voice. I couldn"t help it. I was furious. "How dare you speak to me like that!" I replied. "I"m going to hang up now and I suggest that you don"t ring my house again, okay?"
Whatever she said in reply I didn"t hear, because I slammed the receiver straight down. "Oh. My. G.o.d!" I seethed.
"What?" Mike said. "What was all that about? Who the h.e.l.l was it?"
I had started crying now, as you do when you"ve been upset out of the blue. And shaking, too. "G.o.d! That b.l.o.o.d.y woman! I"m so mad, Mike, I could scream!"
"But what did she say?"
"Sophia"s been ringing her, apparently, and since she"s been here, presumably. Giving her updates on how we"re treating her well, that would seem to be the gist of it. G.o.d, I can"t believe it! Who the h.e.l.l does she think she is?"
"But what did she say?"
"She was cross that her mobile"s going to voicemail. The cheek of it! The mobile we bought her!"
I tried hard to mentally gather myself together. I didn"t want to tell Mike what she"d said about him. That wouldn"t help. But, G.o.d, I felt betrayed. And also terrible. Why had she done this? No, that was stupid. Why did Sophia do anything? But even so I still felt like I"d been slapped in the face. We were trying so hard, but she was clearly unhappy with us all. Why else would she go behind our backs like that?
It took a ma.s.sive effort of will not to confront Sophia the following morning, fruitless though the act would probably be anyway. I"d doubtless be met with another bout of sullen silence, which in my current mood I wouldn"t have taken quite so gently as I had earlier in the week. But Mike was firm. We must try to avoid escalating another outburst. And the fault lay not with Sophia, not really. Despite my pique, her feelings about us me were her own affair. It was the subterfuge I couldn"t stand that and Jean"s tone. How dare she stand in judgement based on the complaints of an unstable 13-year-old child? She"d been trained as a foster carer, hadn"t she? So she b.l.o.o.d.y well should have used some judgement of her own!
No, it was John that I needed to speak to. Right now. I called him as soon as I had the house to myself and spent five minutes trying to keep from losing my temper as I related the conversation.
"So I hung up on her," I said. "And I"m still seething. What makes her think she had a right to do this? I tell you, I feel totally undermined."
"I do understand," he soothed. "It must have been a dreadful shock. No matter what you think, though, I"m quite sure this isn"t born out of malice. She really does just have Sophia"s best interests at heart. No, she shouldn"t have done what she did. Of course not. But I think she carries a lot of guilt about abandoning her, and ..."
"John, she hardly abandoned her, for goodness" sake. She was ill. It"s not like she won"t be having her back soon ..."
There was an uncomfortable silence, then John cleared his throat. Uh-oh. I knew that noise of old.
"Well, that"s the thing. I was going to wait till I came up for our meeting so I could tell you and Mike face to face ..."
I felt a chill pa.s.s through me. What had been said? Had Jean encouraged Sophia to put in a complaint? What? "What"s happened?" I said. "Is she still ill? She did sound a bit wired ..."
"Actually, no. It"s not that. And please don"t breathe a word to Sophia, obviously, but, well, she doesn"t want her back. Casey, she"s resigned."
"Oh, G.o.d, John," I said. "Really?"
He sighed. "I"m afraid so."
Chapter 17.
My mind was in turmoil now. How was this going to affect everything? How was Sophia going to take it? And where did it leave us, exactly? I felt anger, too. That she"d wimped out on everything. I tried to rein it in I didn"t know the circ.u.mstances around it all, did I? But after the way she"d spoken to me it was hard to feel charitable.
"It"s been a shock to us all, Casey," John went on. "No one expected this. But it seems Jean"s not terribly resilient, I"m afraid. Quite the opposite, in fact. Off the record, she"s something of a delicate soul and it seems fostering"s been a bit of a shock to her system."
It had been a shock to mine too, I thought, so I could certainly understand that. But even so, it wasn"t something you took on lightly. Surely someone during her training would have counselled her thoroughly and recognised she wouldn"t be cut out for it? Our kind of fostering, at any rate. I said so.
"Maybe it was just too much like being thrown in at the deep end," John mused. Then he cleared his throat. "Actually, I found something else out about that. She"s not a specialist, Casey. I had that wrong. She was just a mainstream foster carer who they turned to in an emergency situation. The uncle had practically landed Sophia on the doorstep of social services. She probably shouldn"t have been taking on a child like Sophia for her first placement. But then, no one knew what we do now, did they?" He sighed. "Jean"s also now saying that the reason for her breakdown was Sophia. Well, a big contributory factor at any rate. It"s all been too much for her, basically."
"But what happens now?"
"Well, you can rest a.s.sured that we"re busy looking for a new long-term placement for Sophia, but there"s no point in me fudging this it could take time. Which means that you and Mike might have to have her for a bit longer. But, as I say, it"s important we don"t tell Sophia this right now."
"No, obviously, but, G.o.d! How is this all going to impact on her when she is told? She"s clearly very attached to Jean she"s obviously been phoning her pretty regularly ..."
"Which is why we"d be really grateful if you"d allow them to remain in contact. Organised, this time, of course. Jean"s very keen on that still wants to play some part in Sophia"s life, if that"s workable. And that can"t be a bad thing, can it?"
"No," I admitted. "I guess not."
"Exactly. Give her access to a larger support network."
I thought back to my parting words to Jean and felt guilty. Yes, she"d provoked them, and her manner had been inexcusable. But perhaps I should feel less cross and more sympathetic towards her. It can"t have been easy for her; she must be feeling dreadful about Sophia. "I"ll call her," I said to John. "Smooth things over. And I"ll see what we can get organised about that contact."
"Thanks for being so understanding, Casey. I appreciate it, I really do. And I"m sorry we didn"t keep you in the loop in all this. It"s just that Jean"s link worker was so sure she"d reconsider and change her mind. But listen." His tone was immediately brighter. "Good news as well, which I was going to call you about anyway. I"ve got my hands on the police report from the day of Grace"s accident."
"Finally. And?"
"And it"s certainly illuminating. And there"s also a psychiatric evaluation for you to look at. How are you and Mike fixed? I"m quite clear later this week."
"Can"t be too soon, John, it really can"t."
The police report was in the form of a big manila file, across the front of which, in red letters, was written "CONFIDENTIAL". John pushed it across the dining table towards me and Mike. "I warn you, Casey," he said, "it"s pretty grim stuff. I"ve read it all twice now, and if this is what Sophia"s been bottling up, then no wonder she"s having psychological problems."
I opened the folder. At least I knew that after hearing Justin"s story not to mention the kids in school it would take a lot to shock me these days. And I was right. Sophia"s wasn"t so much shocking as tragic. She"d simply been born to the wrong mother at the wrong time.
Mike and I started to read. There was a lot of jargon on the first page, giving details of this officer and that officer and who did what, then it went on to record a transcript of a phone conversation between Sophia and the emergency services.
999 OPERATOR "Police emergency. Can I help you?"
YOUNG GIRL "It"s my mum. I think she"s dead."
OPERATOR "Can I have your name and address, lovey?"
YOUNG GIRL "Yes, I"m Sophia, I live at [address given]."
OPERATOR "Okay, sweetheart. That"s great. Now, how old are you?"
SOPHIA "I"m almost eleven."