Memorize:
"How shall I a habit break?"
As you did that habit make.
As you gathered, you must lose; As you yielded, now refuse.
Thread by thread the strands we twist Till they bind us, neck and wrist; Thread by thread the patient hand Must untwine, ere free we stand.
As we builded, stone by stone, We must toil, unhelped, alone, Till the wall is overthrown.
But remember, as we try, Lighter every test goes by; Wading in, the stream grows deep Toward the center"s downward sweep; Backward turn, each step ash.o.r.e Shallower is than that before.
Ah, the precious years we waste Leveling what we raised in haste: Doing what must be undone Ere content or love be won!
First, across the gulf we cast Kite-borne threads, till lines are pa.s.sed, And habit builds the bridge at last!
_John Boyle O"Reilly._
Memory Gem:
Habit is a cable. Every day we weave a thread, until at last it is so strong we cannot break it.
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WASHINGTON AND HIS MOTHER.
Some of the most interesting anecdotes of the early life of Washington were derived from his mother, a dignified matron who, by the death of her husband, while her children were young, became the sole conductress of their education. To the inquiry, what course she had pursued in rearing one so truly ill.u.s.trious, she replied, "Only to require obedience, diligence, and truth."
These simple rules, faithfully enforced, and incorporated with the rudiments of character, had a powerful influence over his future greatness.
He was early accustomed to accuracy in all his statements, and to speak of his faults and omissions without prevarication or disguise. Hence arose that n.o.ble openness of soul, and contempt of deceit in others, which ever distinguished him. Once, by an inadvertence of his youth, considerable loss had been incurred, and of such a nature as to interfere with the plans of his mother. He came to her, frankly owning his error, and she replied, while tears of affection moistened her eyes, "I had rather it should be so, than that my son should have been guilty of a falsehood."
She was careful not to enervate him by luxury or weak indulgence. He was inured to early rising, and never permitted to be idle. Sometimes he engaged in labors which the children of wealthy parents would now account severe, and thus acquired firmness of frame and a disregard of hardship.
The systematic employment of time, which from childhood he had been taught, was of great service when the weight of a nation"s concerns devolved upon him. It was then observed by those who surrounded him, that he was never known to be in a hurry, but found time for the transaction of the smallest affairs in the midst of the greatest and most conflicting duties.
Such benefit did he derive from attention to the counsels of his mother.
His obedience to her commands, when a child, was cheerful and strict; and as he approached to maturer years, the expression of her slightest wish was law.
At length, America having secured her independence, and the war being ended, Washington, who for eight years had not tasted the repose of home, hastened with filial reverence to ask his mother"s blessing. The hero, "first in war, first in peace, and first in the hearts of his countrymen," came to lay his laurels at his mother"s feet.
This venerable woman continued, till past her ninetieth year, to be respected and beloved by all around. With pious grief, Washington closed her eyes and laid her in the grave which she had selected for herself.
We have now seen the man who was the leader of victorious armies, the conqueror of a mighty kingdom, and the admiration of the world, in the delightful att.i.tude of an obedient and affectionate son. She, whom he honored with such filial reverence, said that "he had learned to command others by first learning to obey."
Let those, then, who in the morning of life are ambitious of future eminence, cultivate the virtue of filial obedience, and remember that they cannot be either fortunate or happy while they neglect the injunction, "My son, keep thy father"s commandments, and forsake not the law of thy mother."
[Ill.u.s.tration: _L.E. Fournier._]
CONDUCTRESS, a woman who leads or directs.
The suffix _-ess_ is used to form feminine name-words.
Tell what each of the following words means:
ab" bess ac" tress duch" ess li" on ess count" ess po" et ess song" stress au" thor ess di rect" ress
Use the following h.o.m.onyms in sentences:
air, ere, e"er, heir; oar, ore, o"er; in, inn; four, fore; vain, vein; vale, veil; core, corps; their, there; hear, here; fair, fare; sweet, suite; strait, straight.
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