Don"t use individual b.u.t.ter dishes.
Don"t use the same knife for more than one course.
Don"t use the same fork for more than one course.
Don"t use a spoon for ices or ice-cream.
Don"t serve peas, beans, cauliflower, etc., with meat.
Don"t eat too much.
Don"t eat too fast.
Don"t eat too soon after exercise.
Don"t eat much for breakfast.
Don"t eat much when traveling.
Don"t eat between meals.
Don"t eat after 10 o"clock P. M.
Don"t eat fish with a knife.
Don"t eat ices with a spoon.
Don"t eat boiled eggs from a tumbler.
Don"t eat everything that you like.
Don"t eat anything that you don"t like.
Don"t eat to please anyone but yourself.
Don"t drink when over-heated.
Don"t always drink when thirsty.
Don"t drink ice-water with hot food.
Don"t drink water from a city river.
Don"t drink tea with meat.
Don"t drink _cafe-au-lait_ for dinner.
Don"t drink beer after wine.
Don"t drink wine after beer.
Don"t drink much at meals.
Don"t drink much between meals.
Don"t serve oysters after fish.
Don"t serve soup twice to any guest.
Don"t use a knife for green salads.
Don"t overload either the table or the guest with food.
Don"t bite off a piece of bread.
Don"t scold the servant at the table.
Pa.s.sING THE LOVING CUP.
The host and hostess drink first from the loving cup, then the guest of honor drinks and then the others. The cup is pa.s.sed around the table and each takes a sip and gives a sentiment or toast. If it is an affair given for a guest and not a wedding anniversary, the guest of honor drinks first and christens the cup, then the host and hostess and the guests drink. It is pa.s.sed at the close of the dinner and may be wine, cider, claret cup or fruit punch.