In the office of Colonel Burr, as students, were his two stepsons, Frederick and John Bartow. When absent from home on professional or other business, one of them frequently accompanied him as an amanuensis. On these occasions all his instructions in relation to lawsuits in which he was employed as counsel, or papers connected therewith, were communicated to the attorney or clerk in the office through Mrs. Burr. She appeared to be held responsible for the punctual and prompt performance of any duty required of them. To him she was indeed a helpmate; for she not only had charge of his domestic concerns, but was counselled with, and intimately a.s.sociated in, all his business transactions.
TO MRS. BURR.
Princeton, April, 1785.
I had just embarked in the stage at Paulus Hook when I learned that it went no further than Newark; so that, after being three hours close packed with rabble, I trudged an hour more to find a conveyance to Elizabethtown, where I arrived at eight o"clock, chilled, fatigued, and with a surly headache. A comfortable bed and tea made amends.
We arrived here at six o"clock this evening. I am fortunate in company, and find the travelling much less fatiguing than I imagined.
Remind Frederick of the business with Platt. Write me by the nest post, and by every stage. If I should even have left Philadelphia, I shall meet the letters. Speak of Harriet, and sur tout des trois Theo"s. Adieu.
A. BURR.
TO MRS. BURR.
Philadelphia, April, Sat.u.r.day, 1785.
I did not write you on Friday, as promised in my letter from Princeton, for which I will apologize when we meet. I arrived here in good plight on Friday evening. Augustine came down about noon on Sat.u.r.day. We have made some satisfactory progress in our business.
Seeing the great men of other countries puts me in more conceit of those of my own.
I shall be released on Tuesday evening, which will permit me to see thee on Thursday morning. Mr. Colt will inform you about every thing.
Unfortunately, a gentleman with whom part of our business is has left town. If he should return to-morrow morning, I shall be the happiest of swains on Wednesday morning. I am very minute in these calculations, because I make them very often. Does Theodosia employ herself ever in the same way?
I have been to twenty places to find something to please you, but can see nothing that answers my wishes; you will therefore, I fear, only receive
Your affectionate
A. BURR.
FROM MRS. BURR.
New-York, April, Sat.u.r.day, 1785.
I persuade myself this is the last day you spend in Philadelphia. That to-morrow"s stage will bring you to Elizabethtown; that Tuesday morning you will breakfast with those who pa.s.s the tedious hours regretting your absence, and counting time till you return. Even little Theo. gives up her place on mamma"s lap to tell dear papa--"come home." Tell Augustine he does not know how much he owes me. "Tis a sacrifice I would not make to any human being but himself, nor even to him again. It is the last time of my life I submit to your absence, except from necessity to the calls of your profession. All is well at home. Ireson gone on his intended journey. Morris very little here. The boys very attentive and industrious; much more so for being alone. Not a loud word spoken by the servants. All, in silent expectation, await the return of their much-loved lord; but _all faintly_ when compared to thy
THEO.
TO MRS. BURR.
Since writing to you last evening, every thing has conspired to hara.s.s and delay me. I was really in hopes of surprising you on Wednesday morning; but am now most unfortunately and cruelly detained here till to-morrow evening; shall therefore, with the usual luck of stages, embrace you on Thursday morning.
I have been walking, in the course of this day, hunting offices, records, &c., &c., above eight hours, and am not fatigued. I must really be very robust. Thine,
A. BURR.
TO MRS. BURR.
Albany, April, 1785.
I arrived here on Tuesday evening very late, though little fatigued.
Wednesday afternoon I went with Sill to Bethlehem (Nichols), drank tea, supped, and breakfasted. I am pleased with our friend"s choice, of which more next Tuesday evening. I am vexed you were not of my party here--that we did not charter a sloop. I have planned a _circuit_ with you to Long Island, with a number of pleasant &c.s, which are also reserved to a happier moment.
I shall succeed in all Mrs. Clarke"s business except that of the lands, in which I hope little.
I feel impatient, and almost angry, that I have received no letter from you, though I really do not know of any opportunity by which you could have written; but it seems an endless while to wait till Sat.u.r.day night before I can hear from you. How convenient would a little of the phlegm of _this region_ be upon such occasions as these!
I fear very much for our dear pet.i.te. I tell every one who asks me that both she and you are well, because I abhor the cold, uninterested inquiries, which I know would be made if I should answer otherwise. Do you want the pity of such? Those you thought your very good friends here have forgotten you.
Mademoiselle Y. is very civil. Are the Wadsworths with you? Have you not been tormented with some embarra.s.sments which I wickedly left you to struggle with? I hope you don"t believe the epithet. But why these questions, to which I can receive no answer but in person? I nevertheless fondly persuade myself that I shall receive answers to them all, and many more about yourself, which I have in mind, notwithstanding you will not have seen this. There is such a sympathy in our ideas and feelings, that you can"t but know what will most interest me.
Give Johnstone the enclosed memorandum; or, if he has gone home, to Bartow; the business is of importance, and admits of no delay.
Affectionately adieu,
A. BURR.
TO MRS. BURR.
Chester, Friday, May, 1785.
I arrived here about eleven o"clock this forenoon, with little fatigue, my horse being an excellent one. Appearances are hostile; they talk of twenty or twenty-five days at least. I believe I shall not hold out so long. The commissioners are met, but not all the parties, so that the business is not yet begun. The gentlemen from Albany are not yet arrived or heard of. We shall probably do nothing till they come. I have comfortable clean quarters.
Tell one of the boys to send me some supreme court seals; about six. I forgot them. Write me what calls are made at the office for me.
Distribute my love. Let each of the children write me what they do.
You may certainly find some opportunity. Adieu.
A. BURR.
TO MRS. BURR.
Chester, May, 1785.
I strayed this morning for an hour or two in the woods, where I lay on a rock to enjoy the wild retreat. The cheerfullness of all around me led me to ask why all animated nature enjoyed its being but man? Why man alone is discontented, anxious--sacrificing the present to idle expectations;--expectations which, if answered, are in like manner sacrificed. Never enjoying, always hoping? Answer, _tu mihi magna Apollo_. I would moralize, but time--and my companions are coming in.
Let me hear of your health. Avoid all fatigue. Judge Yates proposes to come down with me. Quoi faire?
My good landlady is out of tea, and begs me to send for a pound. Put it up very well. I am in better health than spirits. Adieu.
A. BURR.