Time is a species of wealth which it is impossible for us to h.o.a.rd, but which we may spend to good advantage.
Character is the eternal temple that each one begins to rear, yet death can only complete it. The finer the architecture, the more fit for the indwelling of angels.
It is only by labor that thought can be made healthy, and only by thought that labor can be made happy; and the two can not be separated with impunity.--_John Ruskin_.
Don"t moralize to a man who is on his back. Help him up, set him firmly on his feet, and then give him advice and means.
There is a pleasure in contemplating good; there is a greater pleasure in receiving good; but the greatest pleasure of all is in doing good, which comprehends the rest.
Morality without religion is only a kind of dead reckoning--an endeavor to navigate a cloudy sea by measuring the distance we have to run, but without observation of the heavenly bodies.
Most people keep too strong a hold of their personality to be able to forget themselves in their subject; they carry an unacknowledged self-consciousness along with them. If to be single-minded is to have an undivided interest in things, they are not single-minded.
Real affection is independent. A woman may pa.s.sionately love a man who does not care for her, and men have gone mad for the sake of women who were indifferent to them. That affection which survives coldness or even contempt on the part of the subject is a stronger proof of its strength than jealousy, however well founded.
To have a respect for ourselves guides our morals, and to have a deference for others governs our manners.
If you want to be miserable, think about yourself, about what you want, what you like, what respect people pay you, and what people think of you.
One great impediment to the rapid dissemination of new truths is that a knowledge of them would convict many sage professors of having long promulgated error.
The leaves that give out the sweetest fragrance are those that are the most cruelly crushed; so the hearts of those who have suffered most can feel for others" woes.
Each of us can so believe in humanity in general as to contribute to that pressure which constantly levers up the race; can surround ourselves with an atmosphere optimistic rather than the contrary.--_Selected_.
He who has more knowledge than good works is like a tree with many branches and few roots, which the first wind throws on its face; while he who does more than he says is like a tree with strong roots and few branches, which all the winds can not uproot.--_Talmud_.
If we waited until it was perfectly convenient, half of the good actions of life would never be accomplished, and very few of its successes.
A helping word to one in trouble is often like a switch on a railroad track, but one inch between wreck and smooth rolling prosperity.
Prayer is the key of day and lock of the night; and we should every day begin and end, bid ourselves good morrow and good night, with prayer.
In order to love mankind, expect but little from them; in order to view their faults without bitterness, pardon them. The wisest men have always been the most indulgent.
There are souls which fall from heaven like flowers, but ere the pure and fresh buds can open they are trodden in the dust of the earth, and lie soiled and crushed under the foul tread of some brutal hoof.
Many of the men we calmly set down as failures may have been doing as much as those who have made ten times as much noise in the world. A great deal of the best work in the world is anonymous, if we do not confine the term to writing.
To a man of brave sentiments midnight is as bright as noonday, for the illumination is within.
That man who lives in vain lives worse than vain. He who lives to no purpose lives to a bad purpose.--_Nevins_.
Labor is the law of the world, and he who lives by other men"s means is of less value to the world than the buzzing, busy insect.
Deep is the sea, and deep is h.e.l.l, but pride runneth deeper; it is coiled as a poisonous worm about the foundation of the soul.--_Tupper_.
The integrity of the heart, when it is strengthened by reason, is the princ.i.p.al source of justice and wit; an honest man thinks nearly always justly.
Be firm, but be not too hasty to decide; weigh well before you act, but, having weighed, act promptly, and abide the result. This is the test of judgment.
Wit loses its respect with the good when seen in company with malice; and to smile at the jest which plants a thorn in another"s breast is to become a princ.i.p.al in the mischief.
Success never did, never will come to that young man who knows everything--in his own opinion.
In love, as in everything else, truth is the strongest of all things, and frankness is but another name for truth.
Frequent disappointment teaches us to mistrust our own inclination, and shrink even from vows our hearts may prompt.
For children there is no leave-taking, for they acknowledge no past, only the present, that to them is full of the future.
To love, in order to be loved in return, is man, but to love for the pure sake of loving, is almost the characteristic of an angel.
Fond as a man is of sight-seeing, life is the great show for every man--the show always wonderful and new to the thoughtful.
The sweetest book in all the world, if properly read, is the Bible.
Its leaves are as fragrant as a bed of violets in full bloom.
Pity gilds mortality with rays of immortal light, and through faith enables its possessor to triumph over sin, sorrow, tribulation and death.
If we can not live so as to be happy, let us at least live so as to deserve happiness.--_Fichte_.
Little by little fortunes are acc.u.mulated; little by little knowledge is gained; little by little character and reputation are achieved.
Don"t rely for success upon empty praise. The swimmer upon the stream of life must be able to keep afloat without the aid of bladders.
Industry--In seeking a situation, remember that the right kind of men are always in demand, and that industry and capacity rarely go empty-handed.
Frankness is the child of honesty and courage. Say just what you mean to do on every occasion, and take it for granted that you mean to do what is right.
To be always intending to lead a new life, but never to find time to set about it, is as if a man should put off eating from one day to another till he is starved.
A man loved by a beautiful and virtuous woman carries a talisman that renders him invulnerable; every one feels that such a one"s life has a higher value than that of others.
The great beauty of charity is privacy; there is a sweet force, even in an anonymous penny.
Every heart has its secret sorrows, and oftentimes we call a man cold when he was only sad.
A promise should be given with caution, and kept with care; it should be made with the heart and kept with the head.
"The mind of a young creature," says Berkely, "can not remain empty; if you do not put into it that which is good, it will be sure to use even that which is bad."
We all see at sunset the beautiful colors streaming all over the western sky, but no eyes can behold the hand that overturns the urns whence these streams are poured.
We often live under a cloud, and it is well for us that we should do so. Uninterrupted sunshine would parch our hearts. We want shade and rain to cool and refresh them.
Poverty is very terrible to you, and kills the soul in you sometimes; but it is the north wind that lashed men into vikings; it is the soft, luscious south wind that lulls to lotus dreams.