Chapter 673 - him, I"ve been here!Everyone had their own shortcomings and strengths that others couldn"t compare to.
When we meet people who are stronger than us, we may envy them, we may be jealous, we may be ashamed of our inferiority.However, if there was a type of person who could not stop thinking about their weaknesses, feeling that they could not compare to others or even walk in shame, that they could not even lift their head up, that was a strong feeling of inferiority.
People with low self-esteem also had different performances.
Just like what Li Yueqin said about this thirty year old, it was a bit too much. No matter what others said, he would always think of himself, extremely sensitive and weak.
When Ji Feng came here, he also heard Liu 30"s words. He naturally thought that Li Yueqin was against his sister and his matter because his family was short on money. He was too poor, and even his mood became very excited.This was indeed a bit too self-abased!
"It"s impossible for people to not have shortcomings. Everyone has it, so I don"t have high requirements for your sister to find a boyfriend. As long as the person is upright and is nice to your sister, it won"t be too hard for her to live a life."
Li Yueqin sighed, "As for whether or not his family is rich, how much he will achieve in the future is not that important. As long as your sister thinks it"s good and the two of them can get along, it"s enough for them to have a happy life together in the future. Otherwise, if he treats your sister badly, even if he has the money, so what? "
Ji Feng nodded slightly, feeling pity for the parents of the world.
"But this Little Liu is too self-abased."Li Yueqin shook her head and said, "An outsider might seem to have a strong sense of self-esteem, but in reality, many people are unclear about self-esteem and inferiority. This Xiao Liu is one of them. A man might not have any abilities, but he definitely could not feel too inferior. Otherwise, he would not even be able to keep his straight back! I can"t let your sister live with a man like that for the rest of her life! "
Ji Feng said, "Auntie, did you tell all of this to my sister?"
Li Yueqin nodded and said, "Why didn"t you say so?"Ji Feng asked, "Then can she listen? What did she think of that? "
Li Yueqin shook her head and said, "She … Sigh! "You should know your sister"s personality. She"s that kind of soft-hearted and weak person, and this Little Liu can coax her. If you say a few nice words, she"s sweet all day, but doesn"t little girls like these?"
Ji Feng couldn"t help but laugh."Later on, after I came into contact with this Xiao Liu a few times, I found that this Xiao Liu is too self-abased, so I told your sister about it. I think she took it to heart." Li Yueqin said, "But based on your sister"s character, how can she be put down so easily? "I don"t know how bad my heart feels."
Ji Feng slowly nodded his head. For someone who took their feelings seriously, every end of a relations.h.i.+p was a type of torture to them. Humans were creatures of emotion, this was something no one could avoid.
Whether it was the sour, astringent, and somewhat sweet secret love, or the pa.s.sionate love of love, it was all like this.
Of course, those people who only played around and never knew what relations.h.i.+ps were, naturally did not have such feelings.However, Li Yantong was not such a person, so Ji Feng could understand what it felt like to break up with someone she liked.
In that case, it was not impossible to understand why the tides were broken.
"Then, does my sister really understand the essence of this Liu 30, or is she just listening to your words?" Ji Feng asked.
"I think she"s just listening to me."
Li Yueqin couldn"t help but shake her head and say, "I"ve lived for more than half my life. I can clearly see some things, but your sister has only just come into contact with society, so how can she tell so clearly?"Ji Feng replied, "Then wouldn"t it be fine if you let her clearly understand the nature of Liu Thirty?"
Li Yueqin shook her head and said, "How can it be that easy?!" Little Liu"s few words might cause this girl to be confused and disoriented. How can she see clearly? "
Ji Feng nodded his head with a smile on his face. Indeed, the IQ of those who had fallen in love plummeted drastically. How could they remain calm?
"She"ll see." Ji Feng replied, "At that time, she will understand your good intentions."
"But she can"t drag it on either." Li Yueqin said, "Right now, what I"m worried about the most is your sister"s personal problems. She"s already at the age of marriage, so many people and children her age are already so old …"
Ji Feng laughed, "Auntie, you don"t have to be so anxious. My sister is so outstanding, I definitely have to look for the best one. Her fate has yet to arrive."
"Ai!"
Li Yueqin couldn"t help but shake her head; fate hadn"t arrived yet, so she didn"t know when it would come.She was very happy to see Ji Feng. Although the two siblings did not see each other often, the blood relations.h.i.+p between them that originated from the depths of their bones was still very easy for them to establish a good relations.h.i.+p with each other. Therefore, Li Yantong and Ji Feng had a good conversation.
"Ji Feng, tell your sister about it and try to persuade her as well." Li Yueqin gave Ji Feng a meaningful glance before she turned around to go cook, leaving Ji Feng smiling bitterly on the inside.Asking him to persuade his sister? Honestly speaking, Ji Feng didn"t know what to say.
It wasn"t because Ji Feng was afraid that his sister would be angry, but because he didn"t know anything about the man called Liu 30, so it wasn"t good for him to randomly comment.
If it was Xiao Yu, Ji Feng could have said a few words. For example, the situation yesterday, Ji Feng could tell that that Ao Hai was not a simple person and that chasing Xiao Yu might not be the top priority, so he could give Xiao Yu a reminder.
However, he knew almost nothing about this Liu Thirty.
"Little Feng, did my mom say something to you?" Li Yantong asked in a low voice.
"Nothing much, just that guy called Liu 30, Auntie said a few words." "Sis, why didn"t you tell me that you were in a relations.h.i.+p?"
"I knew she was talking about that!"
Li Yantong was a little speechless and said helplessly, "I"ve already promised her that I won"t communicate with Liu 30, but she still doesn"t feel at ease!"
Ji Feng laughed, "Sis, don"t complain too much. Auntie did all this for your own good. Auntie has enough life experience, so you must have a better understanding of people than us. She won"t harm you, will she?"
Li Yantong said in distress, "I understand. However, sometimes reason isn"t the only way to judge emotions. Little Feng, when I say this, you should understand it right?Ji Feng nodded his head, "En, I agree with your words. Sis, I still agree with auntie. You can first put some distance between yourself and that Liu XXIII, and try to look at him as if he"s a bystander. If at that time you still think he"s good, then that"s really good. "
Li Yantong asked, "Little Feng, did you hear that after your aunt pa.s.sed by, you also felt that Liu 30 was not good, so you advised me like this?"
Ji Feng laughed, "How about it? We can only find out after we look at the distance. We can only find out after we get close to each other for a period of time, but I think it"s better to keep a distance."Li Yantong naturally understood the meaning behind Ji Feng"s words. She blushed and glared at Ji Feng, "You stinking brat, do you think that your sister has no sense of propriety?"
Ji Feng smiled. It was good enough that he understood.
After all, this was still a matter of personal feelings. Others could give suggestions, but they couldn"t make decisions for her, not even if it was siblings.
Furthermore, Ji Feng had other things to say this time, so he decided to do his sister"s work first."What?"
Hearing this, Li Yantong was surprised. She quickly lowered her voice and looked back into the kitchen. Seeing that her mother was still in the kitchen and did not notice, she asked softly, "Are you going to attend cousin"s wedding?"
"That"s right, second brother is getting married. Dad wants you and auntie to partic.i.p.ate as well and specifically called me."
Without waiting for Li Yantong to speak, he hurriedly said, "Sis, I know that you may be feeling conflicted, but no matter what, we are still siblings. Ji Shaorei is also your cousin; it is only natural for you to attend his wedding."
Li Yantong fell silent with a complicated expression on her face. "Little Feng, this is too sudden, I"m not mentally prepared …"
"I understand."
Ji Feng nodded and said, "But, sister, think about it, even though your life is very good right now, but dad is still here. You can"t just never see him again, and no matter how much you reject him, this fact won"t change, can"t you?"
Li Yantong was still silent.After a moment, she said: "Little Feng, can you let me think about it? It"s too sudden!"
Ji Feng nodded his head, "Of course you can. "Elder sister, we juniors cannot change the way things were in the past. Since we cannot change it, we must learn to adapt to it. At the very least, living happily is the most important."
Li Yantong silently nodded her head. Her education level was even higher than Ji Feng"s, so how could she not understand this logic?"Actually..."
Li Yantong hesitated for a moment before suddenly saying, "He … He came to see me. "
"Hmm?"Ji Feng was stunned. "Who?"
Li Yantong said, "That"s right. "Him."
Seeing the complicated look on his sister"s face, a light suddenly flashed in Ji Feng"s mind. He immediately understood who she was referring to and asked, "Sis, are you saying that father has come to see you?"
Li Yantong nodded, "... "Right."When she was speaking, there was something unnatural about it. She could not say the word "father" because she had never felt the warmth of the word ever since she was young. However, her current emotions were exceptionally complicated.
When Ji Feng heard this, he could not help but be surprised. He asked, "Sister, when did Father come to see you?"
… ….