_The Cardinal_. My dear woman, G.o.d inst.i.tuted in Paradise the marriage state and sanctified it, and he established its law of unity and declared its indissolubility.

_The Wife_. But, Mr. Cardinal, if it be true that "G.o.d inst.i.tuted marriage in the Garden of Eden, and declared its unity and indissolubility," how do you account for the fact that this same G.o.d afterward upheld polygamy? How is it that he forgot to say anything on the subject when he gave the Ten Commandments to Moses?

_The Cardinal_. You must remember that the inst.i.tution of marriage suffered in the fall of man.

_The Wife_. How does that throw any light upon my case? That was long ago. Surely, I was not represented at that time, and is it right that I should be punished for what was done by others in the very beginning of the world?

_The Cardinal._ Christ rea.s.serted in clear and unequivocal terms, the sanct.i.ty, unity and indissolubility of marriage, and Christ gave to this state an added holiness, and a dignity higher far than it had from the beginning.

_The Wife_. How did it happen that Jacob, while in direct communication with G.o.d, married, not his deceased wife"s sister, but both sisters while both were living? And how, my dear Cardinal, do you account for the fact that G.o.d upheld concubinage?

_The Cardinal._ Marriage is a sacrament. You seem to ask me whether divorce from the bond of marriage can ever be allowed? I answer with an emphatic theological No; and as a reason for this No, I say, Thus saith the Lord. To allow a divorce and to permit the divorced parties, or either of them, to remarry, is one species of polygamy. There are two kinds--the simultaneous and the successive.

_The Wife_. But why did G.o.d allow simultaneous polygamy in Palestine?

Was it any better in Palestine then than it is in Utah now? If a wife dies, and the husband marries another wife, is not that successive polygamy?

_The Cardinal_. Curiosity leads to the commission of deadly sins.

We should be satisfied with a Thus saith the Lord, and you should be satisfied with a Thus saith the Cardinal. If you have the right to inquire--to ask questions--then you take upon yourself the right of deciding after the questions have been answered. This is the end of authority. This undermines the cathedral. You must remember the words of our Lord: "What G.o.d hath joined together, let not man put asunder."

_The Wife_. Do you really think that G.o.d joined us together? Did he at the time know what kind of man he was joining to me? Did he then know that he was a wretch, an ingrate, a kind of wild beast? Did he then know that this husband would desert me--leave me with two babes in my arms, without raiment and without food? Did G.o.d put his seal upon this bond of marriage, upon this sacrament, and it was well-pleasing in his sight that my life should be sacrificed, and does he leave me now to crawl toward death, in poverty and tears?

_The Cardinal_. My dear woman, I will not linger here to point out to you the need of seeking from a higher than an earthly power the grace to suffer and be strong.

_The Wife_. Mr. Cardinal, am I under any obligation to G.o.d? Will it increase the happiness of the infinite for me to remain homeless and husbandless? Another offers to make me his wife and to give me a home,--to take care of my children and to fill my heart with joy. If I accept, will the act lessen the felicity or ecstasy of heaven? Will it add to the grief of G.o.d? Will it in any way affect his well-being?

_The Cardinal._ Nothing that we can do can effect the well-being of G.o.d.

He is infinitely above his children.

_The Wife_. Then why should he insist upon the sacrifice of my life? Mr.

Cardinal, you do not seem to sympathize with me. You do not understand the pangs I feel. You are too far away from my heart, and your words of consolation do not heal the bruise; they leave me as I now leave you--without hope. I will ask the advice of the Right Honorable William E. Gladstone.

_The Wife_. Mr. Gladstone, you know my story, and so I ask that you will give me the benefit of your knowledge, of your advice.

_Mr. Gladstone_. My dear woman, marriage is essentially a contract for life, and only expires when life itself expires. I say this because Christian marriage involves a vow before G.o.d, and no authority has been given to the Christian Church to cancel such a vow.

_The Wife_. Do you consider that G.o.d was one of the contracting parties in my marriage? Must all vows made to G.o.d be kept? Suppose the vow was made in ignorance, in excitement--must it be absolutely fulfilled? Will it make any difference to G.o.d whether it is kept or not? Does not an infinite G.o.d know the circ.u.mstances under which every vow is made? Will he not take into consideration the imperfections, the ignorance, the temptations and the pa.s.sions of his children? Will G.o.d hold a poor girl to the bitter dregs of a mistaken bargain? Have I not suffered enough?

Is it necessary that my heart should break? Did not G.o.d know at the time the vow was made that it ought not to have been made? If he feels toward me as a father should, why did he give no warning? Why did he accept the vow? Why did he allow a contract to be made giving only to death the annulling power? Is death more merciful than G.o.d?

_Mr. Gladstone_. All vows that are made to G.o.d must be kept. Do you not remember that Jephthah agreed to sacrifice the first one who came out of his house to meet him, and that he fulfilled the vow, although in doing so, he murdered his own daughter. G.o.d makes no allowance for ignorance, for temptation, for pa.s.sion--nothing. Besides, my dear woman, to cancel the contract of marriage lies beyond the province of the civil legislature; it has no competency to annul the contract of marriage when once made.

_The Wife_. The man who has rescued me from the tyranny of my husband--the man who wishes to build me a home and to make my life worth living, wishes to make with me a contract of marriage. This will give my babes a home.

_Mr. Gladstone_. My dear madam, while divorce of any kind impairs the integrity of the family, divorce with remarriage destroys it root and branch.

_The Wife_. The integrity of my family is already destroyed. My husband deserted his home--left us in the very depths of want. I have in my arms two helpless babes. I love my children, and I love the man who has offered to give them and myself another fireside. Can you say that this is only destruction? The destruction has already occurred. A remarriage gives a home to me and mine.

_Mr. Gladstone._ But, my dear mistaken woman, the parental and the conjugal relations are joined together by the hand of the Almighty.

_The Wife._ Do you believe that the Almighty was cruel enough, in my case, to join the parental and the conjugal relations, to the end that they should endure as long as I can bear the sorrow? If there were three parties to my marriage, my husband, myself, and G.o.d, should each be bound by the contract to do something? What did G.o.d bind himself to do? If nothing, why should he interfere? If nothing, my vow to him was without consideration. You are as cruel and unsympathetic, Mr.

Gladstone, as the Cardinal. You have not the imagination to put yourself in my place.

_Mr. Gladstone._ My dear madam, we must be governed by the law of Christ, and there must be no remarriage. The husband and wife must remain husband and wife until a separation is caused by death.

_The Wife._ If Christ was such a believer in the sacredness of the marriage relation, why did he offer rewards not only in this world, but in the next, to husbands who would desert their wives and follow him?

_Mr. Gladstone._ It is not for us to inquire. G.o.d"s ways are not our ways.

_The Wife._ Nature is better than you. A mother"s love is higher and deeper than your philosophy. I will follow the instincts of my heart. I will provide a home for my babes, and for myself. I will be freed from the infamous man who betrayed me. I will become the wife of another--of one who loves me--and after having filled his life with joy, I hope to die in his arms, surrounded by my children.

A few months ago, a priest made a confession--he could carry his secret no longer. He admitted that he was married--that he was the father of two children--that he had violated his priestly vows. He was unfrocked and cast out. After a time he came back and asked to be restored into the bosom of the church, giving as his reason that he had abandoned his wife and babes. This throws a flood of light on the theological view of marriage.

I know of nothing equal to this, except the story of the Sandwich Island chief who was converted by the missionaries, and wished to join the church. On cross-examination, it turned out that he had twelve wives, and he was informed that a polygamist could not be a Christian. The next year he presented himself again for the purpose of joining the church, and stated that he was not a polygamist--that he had only one wife. When the missionaries asked him what he had done with the other eleven he replied: "I ate them."

The indissoluble marriage was a reaction from polygamy. The church has always pretended that it was governed by the will of G.o.d, and that for all its dogmas it had a "thus saith the Lord." Reason and experience were branded as false guides. The priests insisted that they were in direct communication with the Infinite--that they spoke by the authority of G.o.d, and that the duty of the people was to obey without question and to submit with at least the appearance of gladness.

We now know that no such communication exists--that priests spoke without authority, and that the duty of the people was and is to examine for themselves. We now know that no one knows what the will of G.o.d is, or whether or not such a being exists. We now know that nature has furnished all the light there is, and that the inspired books are like all books, and that their value depends on the truth, the beauty, and the wisdom they contain. We also know that it is now impossible to substantiate the supernatural. Judging from experience--reasoning from known facts--we can safely say that society has no right to demand the sacrifice of an innocent individual.

Society has no right, under the plea of self-preservation, to compel women to remain the wives of men who have violated the contract of marriage, and who have become objects of contempt and loathing to their wives. It is not to the best interest of society to maintain such firesides--such homes.

The time has not arrived, in my judgment, for the Congress of the United States, under an amendment to the Const.i.tution, to pa.s.s a general law applicable to all the States, fixing the terms and conditions of divorce. The States of the Union are not equally enlightened. Some are far more conservative than others. Let us wait until a majority of the States have abandoned the theological theories upon this subject.

Upon this question light comes from the West, where men have recently laid the foundations of States, and where the people are not manacled and burdened with old const.i.tutions and statutes and decisions, and where with a large majority the tendency is to correct the mistakes of their ancestors.

Let the States in their own way solve this question, and the time will come when the people will be ready to enact sensible and reasonable laws touching this important subject, and then the Const.i.tution can be amended and the whole subject controlled by Federal law.

The law, as it now exists in many of the States, is to the last degree absurd and cruel. In some States the husband can obtain a divorce on the ground that the wife has been guilty of adultery, but the wife cannot secure a divorce from the husband simply for the reason that he has been guilty of the same offence. So, in most of the States where divorce is granted on account of desertion for a certain number of years, the husband can return on the last day of the time fixed, and the poor wife who has been left in want is obliged to receive the wretch with open arms. In some States nothing is considered cruelty that does not endanger life or limb or health. The whole question is in great confusion, but after all there are some States where the law is reasonable, and the consequence is, that hundreds and thousands of suffering wives are released from a bondage worse than death.

The idea that marriage is something more than a contract is at the bottom of all the legal and judicial absurdities that surround this subject. The moment that it is regarded from a purely secular standpoint the infamous laws will disappear. We shall then take into consideration the real rights and obligations of the parties to the contract of marriage. We shall have some respect for the sacred feelings of mothers--for the purity of woman--the freedom of the fireside--the real democracy of the hearthstone and, above all, for love, the purest, the profoundest and the holiest of all pa.s.sions.

We shall no longer listen to priests who regard celibacy as a higher state than marriage, nor to those statesmen who look upon a barbarous code as the foundation of all law.

As long as men imagine that they have property in wives; that women can be owned, body and mind; that it is the duty of wives to obey; that the husband is the master, the source of authority--that his will is law, and that he can call on legislators and courts to protect his superior rights, that to enforce obedience the power of the State is pledged--just so long will millions of husbands be arrogant, tyrannical and cruel.

No gentleman will be content to have a slave for the mother of his children. Force has no place in the world of love. It is impossible to control likes and dislikes by law. No one ever did and no one ever can love on compulsion. Courts can not obtain jurisdiction of the heart.

The tides and currents of the soul care nothing for the creeds.

People who make rules for the conduct of others generally break them themselves. It is so easy to bear with fort.i.tude the misfortunes of others.

Every child should be well-born--well fathered and mothered. Society has as great an interest in children as in parents. The innocent should not be compelled by law to suffer for the crimes of the guilty. Wretched and weeping wives are not essential to the welfare of States and Nations.

The church cries now "whom G.o.d hath joined together let not man put asunder"; but when the people are really civilized the State will say: "whom Nature hath put asunder let not man bind and manacle together."

Robert G. Ingersoll.

ANSWER TO LYMAN ABBOTT.

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