Then, Sir, let me tell you, had you been less upon your defiances, they would not have been irritated so much against you. But n.o.body ever heard, that avowed despite to the relations of a person was a proper courtship, either to that person, or to her friends.
Well, Madam, all that I know is, that their malice against me is such, that, if you determine to sacrifice me, you may be reconciled when you please.
And all I know, Sir, is, that if I do give my father the power of a negative, and he will be contented with that, it will be but my duty to give it him; and if I preserve one to myself, I shall break through no obligation to you.
Your duty to your capricious brother, not to your father, you mean, Madam.
If the dispute lay between my brother and me at first, surely, Sir, a father may choose which party he will take.
He may, Madam--but that exempts him not from blame for all that, if he take the wrong--
Different people will judge differently, Mr. Lovelace, of the right and the wrong. You judge as you please. Shall not others as they please? And who has a right to controul a father"s judgment in his own family, and in relation to his own child?
I know, Madam, there is no arguing with you. But, nevertheless, I had hoped to have made myself some little merit with you, so as that I might not have been the preliminary sacrifice to a reconciliation.
Your hope, Sir, had been better grounded if you had had my consent to my abandoning of my father"s house--
Always, Madam, and for ever, to be reminded of the choice you would have made of that d.a.m.n"d Solmes--rather than--
Not so hasty! not so rash, Mr. Lovelace! I am convinced that there was no intention to marry me to that Solmes on Wednesday.
So I am told they now give out, in order to justify themselves at your expense. Every body living, Madam, is obliged to you for your kind thoughts but I.
Excuse me, good Mr. Lovelace [waving my hand, and bowing], that I am willing to think the best of my father.
Charming creature! said he, with what a bewitching air is that said!--And with a vehemence in his manner would have s.n.a.t.c.hed my hand.
But I withdrew it, being much offended with him.
I think, Madam, my sufferings for your sake might have ent.i.tled me to some favour.
My sufferings, Sir, for your impetuous temper, set against your sufferings for my sake, I humbly conceive, leave me very little your debtor.
Lord! Madam, [a.s.suming a drawling air] What have you suffered?--Nothing but what you can easily forgive. You have been only made a prisoner in your father"s house, by way of doing credit to your judgment!--You have only had an innocent and faithful servant turned out of your service, because you loved her!--You have only had your sister"s confident servant set over you, with leave to tease and affront you--!
Very well, Sir!
You have only had an insolent brother take upon him to treat you like a slave, and as insolent a sister to undermine you in every body"s favour, on pretence to keep you out of hands, which, if as vile as they vilely report, are not, however, half so vile and cruel as their own.
Go on, Sir, if you please!
You have only been persecuted, in order to oblige you to have a sordid fellow, whom you have professed to hate, and whom every body despises!
The license has been only got! The parson has only been had in readiness! The day, a near, a very near day, had been only fixed! And you were only to be searched for your correspondencies, and still closer confined till the day came, in order to deprive you of all means of escaping the snare laid for you!--But all this you can forgive! You can wish you had stood all this; inevitable as the compulsion must have been!--And the man who, at the hazard of his life, had delivered you from all these mortifications, is the only person you cannot forgive!
Can"t you go on, Sir? You see I have patience to hear you. Can"t you go on, Sir?
I can, Madam, with my sufferings: which I confess ought not to be mentioned, were I at last to be rewarded in the manner I hoped.
Your sufferings then, if you please, Sir?
Affrontingly forbidden your father"s house, after encouragement given, without any reasons they knew not before to justify the prohibition: forced upon a rencounter I wished to avoid: the first I ever, so provoked, wished to avoid. And that, because the wretch was your brother!
Wretch, Sir!--And my brother!--This could be from no man breathing, but from him before me!
Pardon me, Madam!--But oh! how unworthy to be your brother!--The quarrel grafted upon an old one, when at college; he universally known to be the aggressor; and revived for views equally sordid and injurious both to yourself and me--giving life to him, who would have taken away mine!
Your generosity THIS, Sir; not your sufferings: a little more of your sufferings, if you please!--I hope you do not repent, that you did not murder my brother!
My private life hunted into! My morals decried! Some of the accusers not unfaulty!
That"s an aspersion, Sir!
Spies set upon my conduct! One hired to bribe my own servant"s fidelity; perhaps to have poisoned me at last, if the honest fellow had not--
Facts, Mr. Lovelace!--Do you want facts in the display of your sufferings?--None of your perhaps"s, I beseech you!
Menaces every day, and defiances, put into every one"s mouth against me!
Forced to creep about in disguises--and to watch all hours--
And in all weathers, I suppose, Sir--That, I remember, was once your grievance! In all weathers, Sir!* and all these hardships arising from yourself, not imposed by me.
* See Letter VI. of this volume.
Like a thief, or an eaves-dropper, proceeded he: and yet neither by birth nor alliances unworthy of their relation, whatever I may be and am of their admirable daughter: of whom they, every one of them, are at least as unworthy!--These, Madam, I call sufferings: justly call so; if at last I am to be sacrificed to an imperfect reconciliation--imperfect, I say: for, can you expect to live so much as tolerably under the same roof, after all that has pa.s.sed, with that brother and sister?
O Sir, Sir! What sufferings have yours been! And all for my sake, I warrant!--I can never reward you for them!--Never think of me more I beseech you--How can you have patience with me?--Nothing has been owing to your own behaviour, I presume: nothing to your defiances for defiances: nothing to your resolution declared more than once, that you would be related to a family, which, nevertheless, you would not stoop to ask a relation of: nothing, in short to courses which every body blamed you for, you not thinking it worth your while to justify yourself. Had I not thought you used in an ungentlemanly manner, as I have heretofore told you, you had not had my notice by pen and ink.*
That notice gave you a supposed security, and you generously defied my friends the more for it: and this brought upon me (perhaps not undeservedly) my father"s displeasure; without which, my brother"s private pique, and selfish views, would have wanted a foundation to build upon: so that for all that followed of my treatment, and your redundant only"s, I might thank you princ.i.p.ally, as you may yourself for all your sufferings, your mighty sufferings!--And if, voluble Sir, you have founded any merit upon them, be so good as to revoke it: and look upon me, with my forfeited reputation, as the only sufferer--For what--pray hear me out, Sir [for he was going to speak] have you suffered in but your pride? Your reputation could not suffer: that it was beneath you to be solicitous about. And had you not been an unmanageable man, I should not have been driven to the extremity I now every hour, as the hour pa.s.ses, deplore--with this additional reflection upon myself, that I ought not to have begun, or, having begun, not continued a correspondence with one who thought it not worth his while to clear his own character for my sake, or to submit to my father for his own, in a point wherein every father ought to have an option--
* See Letter VI. of this volume.
Darkness, light; light, darkness; by my soul;--just as you please to have it. O charmer of my heart! s.n.a.t.c.hing my hand, and pressing it between both of his, to his lips, in a strange wild way, take me, take me to yourself: mould me as you please: I am wax in your hands; give me your own impression; and seal me for ever yours--we were born for each other!--You to make me happy, and save a soul--I am all error, all crime. I see what I ought to have done. But do you think, Madam, I can willingly consent to be sacrificed to a partial reconciliation, in which I shall be so great, so irreparable a sufferer!--Any thing but that--include me in your terms: prescribe to me: promise for me as you please--put a halter about my neck, and lead me by it, upon condition of forgiveness on that disgraceful penance, and of a prostration as servile, to your father"s penance (your brother absent), and I will beg his consent at his feet, and bear any thing but spurning from him, because he is your father. But to give you up upon cold conditions, d----n me [said the shocking wretch] if I either will, or can!
These were his words, as near as I can remember them; for his behaviour was so strangely wild and fervent, that I was perfectly frighted. I thought he would have devoured my hand. I wished myself a thousand miles distant from him.
I told him, I by no means approved of his violent temper: he was too boisterous a man for my liking. I saw now, by the conversation that had pa.s.sed, what was his boasted regard to my injunctions; and should take my measures accordingly, as he should soon find. And, with a half frighted earnestness, I desired him to withdraw, and leave me to myself.
He obeyed; and that with extreme complaisance in his manner, but with his complexion greatly heightened, and a countenance as greatly dissatisfied.
But, on recollecting all that pa.s.sed, I plainly see that he means not, if he can help it, to leave me to the liberty of refusing him; which I had nevertheless preserved a right to do; but looks upon me as his, by a strange sort of obligation, for having run away with me against my will.
Yet you see he but touches upon the edges of matrimony neither. And that at a time, generally, when he has either excited one"s pa.s.sions or apprehensions; so that one cannot at once descend. But surely this cannot be his design.--And yet such seemed to be his behaviour to my sister,* when he provoked her to refuse him, and so tamely submitted, as he did, to her refusal. But he dare not--What can one say of so various a man?--I am now again out of conceit with him. I wish I were fairly out of his power.
* See Vol.I. Letters II. and III.