Chapter 1228: Educated 1
“You mean I made him like that?” He Xiyan did not believe that it was she who made Ye Hao act so drastically.
Professor Lan signed, shaking head towards He Xiyan.
“Certainly you did not cause that directly. He himself is to blame. There are some weaknesses in his personality. Raised in a single parent family, he never received paternal love so he is quite sensitive deep in his heart. Besides, according to the material you provided, he suffered from an emotional betrayal, so he would be even more sensitive. You are in frequent contact with your ex-husband because of your child, and there are photos which were shown to him later, so he was provoked, leading him to drastic actions, such as treating you coldly and even beating you. All what he does has something to do with his character. Certainly, he goes out of control also because he is too concerned about you. More hatred goes with more concern. He is afraid that you indeed love your ex husband rather than him, which makes him to go to extremes and hurt you.”
Speaking of this, Professor Lan lowered his eyelids with something flas.h.i.+ng through his eyes, but He Xiyan did not catch the slightest change.
Professor Lan took a few sips of water. Having spoken too much, she felt somewhat thirsty.
At this moment, He Xiyan let out a sign, shaking her head. “On paper, we are not suitable for each other. If he married a girl who has not married before, perhaps he would not get divorced.” He Xiyan was actually clear about Ye Hao’s feelings for her, so even that he had beaten her twice, she had never borne any hatred against him.
Professor Lan frowned. Putting the gla.s.s down, she looked at the woman in front of her. She knew that she had suffered a lot in loving relations.h.i.+p, so her thoughts were somewhat extreme, which were simply extremer than she thought.
“Why do you think that you are not suitable? He Xiyan, don’t you think that if didn’t have a child with your ex-husband, you would not have these conflicts with him? A lifetime is long. Every couple I have met, no matter how long they have been together, several years or decades, would more or less have conflicts. The problems you have met are also common among them. However, many couples have solved these problems and live a happy life later on.”
“In a harmonious marriage, two people should both have contributions, grow together, face difficulties and try to solve them together. However, you and your ex husband have not done that. You both do what you yourself want regardless of the other’s feelings. What was worse, you did not communicate with each other well. When faced with problems, you prefer dealing with them in your own way while he preers emotional abuse, thus leading to more serious conflicts between you, and finally putting an end to your marriage. Think about it, if every time you go to see your child, you bring your ex-husband with you, would he be so angry? Besides, if you ask him to accompany you when you go take care of your sick child, he would not go for a trip with his whole family and leave you behind. Some problems can be solved through discussions, but you both go to extremes. Neither of you take each other’s thoughts into consideration. You simply deal with the conflicts with instinct, which could only intensify the conflicts, thus leading to your divorce.”
When saying this, Professor Lan apparently strengthened her tone, while He Xiyan simply bit her lips tightly.
She heard that Professor Lan was educating and criticizing her instead of comforting her and giving advice.